Hi guys,
New to the forum and only recently came across the personality types in which I discovered I was an INFJ.
I'm currently in a long term relationship with an ENFP girl and we've been together five years. We've recently got back from travelling together for a year and a half.
Recently I got it into my head that I didn't want a relationship anymore, mainly in my mind due to being scared about the next step of our relationship which would be looking to save up for a place together and our relationship to eventually lead to marriage. Which scares me because of the way my mum and dad are unhappily married and I overthink things and question a lot of things that probably don't need too.
Would like some opinions please, as I'm really struggling to understand my true feelings. Having almost ended the relationship when we got back, I asked for more time to think it through. Since we've had even just a few days apart, I feel re energised and have missed my girlfriend a lot. Is it possible that simply spending more or less 24/7 with a very talkative ENFP for a year and a half has severely drained me without me realising it?
I realise I should take each step of our relationship and enjoy the moment rather than worry about the future but I'm so sensitive and I built it into my head to end a perfectly good relationship because I thought it was best to end it on good terms instead of worrying that it could end in the future on bad terms.
Thanks.
New to the forum and only recently came across the personality types in which I discovered I was an INFJ.
I'm currently in a long term relationship with an ENFP girl and we've been together five years. We've recently got back from travelling together for a year and a half.
Recently I got it into my head that I didn't want a relationship anymore, mainly in my mind due to being scared about the next step of our relationship which would be looking to save up for a place together and our relationship to eventually lead to marriage. Which scares me because of the way my mum and dad are unhappily married and I overthink things and question a lot of things that probably don't need too.
Would like some opinions please, as I'm really struggling to understand my true feelings. Having almost ended the relationship when we got back, I asked for more time to think it through. Since we've had even just a few days apart, I feel re energised and have missed my girlfriend a lot. Is it possible that simply spending more or less 24/7 with a very talkative ENFP for a year and a half has severely drained me without me realising it?
I realise I should take each step of our relationship and enjoy the moment rather than worry about the future but I'm so sensitive and I built it into my head to end a perfectly good relationship because I thought it was best to end it on good terms instead of worrying that it could end in the future on bad terms.
Thanks.