I will accept that I am INFJ, this still isn't good enough, and I will be thinking and processing why the descrpencies that I have in place are there. The fact of the matter is, I am different from most of the INFJ's here, that is saying something right there. I need to know why, and understand it. My Si and Te are certainly playing a role in this, and I am going figure out why, and how. Si has indeed been with me since I was little, Te formed when I was a teenager. They have since become a big part of my personality.
Want to know why you're not exactly like the other INFJs? Simple. Every individual is an exception to the rule. Personality types are generalizations that cover a band of similarities, not definitions that encompass a personality. Your personal cognitive function development, use, and preferences are your own, as are all the other additions to your personality that have nothing to do with cognition.
You are Ni dominant. There is no doubt about this. This means the best fit types for you are going to be INFJ and INTJ. Which of these you are more of is obvious. You feel (Fe) that you need things to line up on a micro scale (Ti) more than you see how all of this relates (Te) and accept that you simply are what you are (Fi). You're an INFJ.
Finally, get this through your Fe... you're not understanding Si correctly. You have more Te than you have Si, by a longshot. You're confusing your Ni memory, Fe need for things to be the way you feel they should, and your Ti focus on the details with Si. Your self opinion looks like Si, but it's not. You've said yourself on many occasions that monontonous menial tasks make you nuts. Si users have the opposite reaction to them. You have some Si like qualities due to the nature of how your Ni, Fe, and Ti are cooperating. I had an incredible memory as a kid, and still have a fairly good one, but I can assure you that my preferences for Si are pathetic.
You, as an individual will always be much greater than the sum of the description of how the INFJ function preferences generally interact. INFJ fits you, not the other way around. Your mind is not a machine, computer, or chemical compound. The human mind is fluid, adaptive, and a highly complex reactive system. For all intents, it is a liquid. You can define the mass and temperature of a liquid, but you'll never define the shape of a liquid. We've defined the mass and temperature of your mind. Stop trying to define the shape, or even expecting it to fit a mold. Liquids don't do that.