1) Hook her
This stage:
Objective: To get her number and email
First thing you have to do is approach. There are three points to the approach:
1)Smile - That would be your mystery, why is this guy smiling. Just think about James Bond in a room working the females. No serious look on his face just a pleasant smile. When you smile people smile back, its one of those things humans do.
2)Approach her from the front - Any other type of approach would make it seem like your putting in too much effort in trying to meet her. Approaching from the front gives the impression that she was just in your part.
3)Approach within 3 second - You dont want to be seen as the stalker guy who constantly watching the lady.
Next you have to start a conversation:
The conversation has several points:-
1)Establish a time boundary for your conversation - For instance, tell her you only have 5 minutes to talk. The main reason for this is you want her to know that, hey I am not going to bug you all night. Knowing that she wouldn't be harassed by you all night/day would make her more open to what you are saying and beside you can expand your time frame if your having a good time.
2)After establishing your time boundary, next is to get her to open up. - This part is called an opener. There are a bunch of guys who have openers look at them here:
http://www.bristollair.com/pua-openers.html
Here is a good opener(This is copied and modified from one of the links above):
MYSTERY’S ESP (Mystery) Walk up to a girl and say, "Do you believe in ESP?" Remember to SMILE or you may startle her. "Just think of the first # that pops into your head from one to four. Don’t say it. Just think it ... now take that # and imagine that it is drawn on a blackboard in your head. Have you done that?"
She says OK
"What’s so neat about imagination is ... we both have it ... On the blackboard, I see the number ... three."
Whether you get it right or not reply.
"Alright, lets try this one more time. This time think of a different # from one to 10. Got it? Picture it in white chalk on the blackboard ... you are thinking of the number ... 7."
If you got the first wrong and the second right, you look like you finally got it ... a 1 in 10 chance. If you get BOTH right (a 90% chance seeing as it is a psychological trick where most north Americans naturally choose 3 and 7 as their first picks) that’s a 1 in 40 chance ... "and of course I don’t stake my reputation on mere chance."
If you get the first right but the second wrong or both wrong, say... "PROOF! ESP does NOT exist!" Then start to laugh like this "Mooa ha ha ha ha ha ha! And you believe in ESP!" a good neg hit to start. If she mentions that most people pick 3 and 7 (most girls wont know this though) just say, "really?
If you take the wording I have and do this EXACTLY as stated, you will be surprised HOW well you will do. When they ask HOW, tell them ... To guess. But if they cant, say you cant divulge your secret and they should stop being nosy. If she wants you to do this again, tell her ... "don’t be greedy now."
If she ask you your age or anything like that you can tell her to guess. Dont tell her unless she has made one guess.
Your next step is too falsely disqualify her:
Your next step would be to find a reason why she cant be with you.
Like maybe she is from the same town as you or she wears a blue dress. Basically, anything silly that you dont like about her.
Heres what you can do for this:
Do the palmistry stuff, just ask her that you want to see her palms.
Now you might want to trace the lines on her palms. And pretend your doing some stuff. You are getting in some good touches(kino) here.
Now since you already know she is a ENTP, you can tell her about herself. Like you might want to say that she is very competitive, loves to play pranks, you know the regular ENTP behavior. This site has a list of ENTP behaviors:
http://similarminds.com/jung/entp.html
Now, you want to joke about her hand like tell her she gets excited too easily and her palms are sweating. Or if her nail is short tell ask her if she bits her nails and say something like eww. The point your trying to convey here is your not interested in her.
Then next tell her, you and her cant be a couple since she is so competitive, but you can be friends. If she ask why, just say you think she will be a better fit as a friend.
After this tell her you got to run but you would like to know her better, then ask for her email and phone number.
Then give her your number, then tell her don't stalk you.
After this phase one is over.
Let me know how it goes. If you fail, no big deal, you can always do more machination.
If you succeed then its on to phase 2.
It might be worth practicing some visualization as to overcome your fear of this event.
So just imagine doing it in your mind's eye. Like maybe a 100 visualization should do it.
