I think if you are any good at all with human nature, you can usually spot who is an oldest, a middle, or an only child. It seems to mold people a lot. The one thing I really dislike now is that people are having small families (1-2 kids) and those kids not only are getting too spoiled, but I think they are really missing out on a family dynamic that is good for them as people. They can learn a lot about interacting with others that is now put off until much later. This leads to other problems as peoples personalities are much more set by the time they leave the nest.
I don't like having a small family
I don't like being an only child. People always tell me that I'm lucky because I get the attention the blah bla hblah and everything but in my head I'm like IF ONLY YOU KNOW.
I WOULD LOVE to have family dinners, reunions and stuff like that. I WISH I had like 4 siblings!!!!!! that would be fun.
I guess I'm stuck with being forever jealous of the people who have big families.
One of the things that I want to have is the love, comfort and happiness that a family can give. I'd imagine being a sister to my siblings and sharing stories and all that. I'll never have the chance to feel the love of a sibling. It's so sad
I guess it has an effect.. a big effect. You'll kind of have to learn things on your own and discover it on your own especially when you're not close to your parents and everything.
Oh and...... When I grow older, I wouldn't have someone to be really comfortable with whenever I have problems or just want to hang out and stuff. I have friends but I think it's so much different when you're with siblings.
I guess it's unfortunate not to have any sibling at all because there's nothing you can do to have a real sibling. I guess the feeling of having a sibling is a feeling I've never felt and I know I can't do anything about it but really........ I think it made a big impact on why I act like this and like that.
I don't know... being an only child, I never had all the attention. I don't think it's about the attention and everything. It's like...... it intensified my feeling of being alone. I feel so isolated and just alone. Because I don't have anyone to turn to (I can't really relate to my parents).
If only I had siblings............