I think this is Fe. I tend to like everyone...or at least most people I meet. What's the problem with that? Well, they don't always (in fact, rarely) like me back as intensely. I mean they might "like" me..but I just get the feeling that I care for them on such a deeper level that the relationship quickly becomes unbalanced. For example..I had the opportunity to be with someone for about 6 hours and I developed feelings for that person, despite not ever having met that person previously. The relationship will likely never go anywhere because it really isn't expected to..(I could easily never see her again)..but I would really like it to. I liked her a lot..the thing is..I would have liked her even if she was a different person. If I talk to anyone for any period of time (especially 6 hours) I'll develop some sort of emotional attachment to them. However people don't seem to do the same..(or at least some..) so...
I either pull away (because they have the ability to hurt me now..) or become overly affectionate (which pushes them away). Both of these actions cause me some emotional turmoil. I imagine there are other ways to deal with this situation though...so, any advice?
I really wouldn't like to change this about me either, I like liking people, but I just want to learn how to deal with these emotions better. (And maybe find more people who I can "like" without having to either pull away or forcing them to pull away..)
I either pull away (because they have the ability to hurt me now..) or become overly affectionate (which pushes them away). Both of these actions cause me some emotional turmoil. I imagine there are other ways to deal with this situation though...so, any advice?
I really wouldn't like to change this about me either, I like liking people, but I just want to learn how to deal with these emotions better. (And maybe find more people who I can "like" without having to either pull away or forcing them to pull away..)