Hi guys,
Need some help with dealing with people who say they are going to do something then just don't. I feel that my J is causing me problems in this case, but at the same time I feel really disrespected. The thing is that two friends in the last week have said that we should catch up and in fact set a day then don't bother letting me know if something is on. I know that people are busy, and things come up, but I would have thought that a message or call from them would be the best thing.
Am I wrong for being frustrated with them. Thought Id get advice from other INFJs who probably feel hurt when ppl dont follow plans.
Need some help with dealing with people who say they are going to do something then just don't. I feel that my J is causing me problems in this case, but at the same time I feel really disrespected. The thing is that two friends in the last week have said that we should catch up and in fact set a day then don't bother letting me know if something is on. I know that people are busy, and things come up, but I would have thought that a message or call from them would be the best thing.
Am I wrong for being frustrated with them. Thought Id get advice from other INFJs who probably feel hurt when ppl dont follow plans.