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well, very long story short, shes my colleague, we work together and see each other almost everyday and talk too.
met her only last week but she was my junior back in school though I did not know it haha. we talked about some of our mutual friends and really clicked. played a little with each other like just disturbing each other haha. then weekend came and I had to ask her something about work but didnt have her no so I found her on facebook, added her and messaged her online. we ended up talking throughout the weekend and learning a little more about each other. found out that we had quite a few similarities and continued playfully disturbing each other. I showed one of my friends some of the messages and she said it sounded like we were old friends haha.
anyway monday went back to work and talked using facebook messaging at work cos the politics there is insane and everybody expects the worst from others so no idea what will happen cos they might think wrongly. anyway, we chatted and worked together when we had to at work. we sit quite far away from each other in the office though we're in the same room haha.
today I decided to try the silent treatment and just ignore her in the morning when we had a course together just to see what will happen. I didnt talk to her at all and could see at first she was wondering what was happening. then she was also quite quiet and stiff. then halfway through the thing the broke the silence and talked to me haha. could see she was like a little probing cos it was extremely random and could like sense she was reserved. i talked back and we ended up talking like crazy again.. so much for my silent treatment..
then after that while i was doing work she walked over with a few other colleagues to put some stuff in the room near me. i looked up she saw me and mouthed something though i couldnt understand so i fb msged her again asking what? haha. then she told me that she thinks that some of the people there dont like her and was quite scared kept asking me if there was anyone behind me at first. then she said also that she saw some of the other people in the office giving us looks. to phrase it her way, "I think you and I got people talk as well" HAHA.
took awhile to understand haha. then she said that when we talk by ourselves some of them would exchange looks. and she also said that essentially even though we are senior and junior they are still like that haha. honestly, I noticed that before, just didnt want to say anything haha. surprised she brought it up.
yeah and that was today. and my friend came to pick me up so I asked her if she wanted a lift she said ok and she left her phone at the office and only realised it after we left so I passed her my phone to call her phone and now i got her no HAHAH.
so what do you all think? does she like me? I'm just curious haha. 'cos its really been a long time since i have been able to click like that with a girl and even longer since I was interested that way in a girl haha. but if I am going to do anything, I need to know that it will work, cos if it doesnt work out, i'm pretty much screwed cos we're in the same office and work closely together due to the job. I'm just gonna continue talking to her and see what happens but just wanted to get some opinions!
oh and she is really sharp and observant so I'm not sure if shes playing games with me too or probing haha.
wow longest post in so long. sorry guys! and thanks for any replies!
oh and yes, she told me herself that shes an ISFJ and I told her I am INFJ and she freely admits that she googled INFJ haha. and reading ISFJ descriptions it does sound like her haha