Something recently happened to me, where I got very angry at someone I care about when they hurt me unintentionally. This person is new in my life and particularly important to me. They challenge me and have no problem in pointing out my weaknesses. For example, I never realized I had a hard time taking criticism or that I take myself too seriously until I met them. Although I think they are good to have in my life, sometimes it becomes too much. I usually don't let myself get upset to the point of irrational anger, until recently.
I don't like this feeling or how I react to situations. I feel like I am causing alot of this tension and negative emotions in this relationship. I've read that this is the most difficult weakness of the INFJ (getting too upset, to the point of anger, and this having negative impacts on relationships).
Anyway, what I'm asking is, has anyone else had this problem? How did you approach the person afterwards? How did you stop yourself from getting to that point again?
Thanks
I don't like this feeling or how I react to situations. I feel like I am causing alot of this tension and negative emotions in this relationship. I've read that this is the most difficult weakness of the INFJ (getting too upset, to the point of anger, and this having negative impacts on relationships).
Anyway, what I'm asking is, has anyone else had this problem? How did you approach the person afterwards? How did you stop yourself from getting to that point again?
Thanks