- MBTI
- INXP
I'm sorry, but it is. I have an Fe dominant roommate and we are driving each other nuts to the point that we both have serious reservations about rooming with each other. Online I have the Fe problem of dismissing belief systems that aren't based on solid rational or evidence to the point that people feel attacked and it creates an atmosphere of hostility. Offline I have an Fe problem of my lack of "mindfulness" about things like using a coaster for drinks, not touching walls where I might leave fingerprints, remembering to sign off my e-mail account when using my roomy's laptop, and not asking too many questions.
And you know what! Fe doms are not considerate of other people's time! There I said it! I know I'm not considerate of people's space and feelings, but dammit, there are more important things than making a good impression! You don't need to take several hours cleaning and getting things just perfect!
Please help me understand this evil function. Yeah, I'm a slob. I don't know many young INTPs who are mindful about messes. I don't know many who are mindful about this social world you all seem to live in where sensibilities take priority and it is such a huge painful embarrassment when someone is acting outside that norm. I have just enough Fe to step into your shoes, but not enough tolerance to stay in them.
And you know what! Fe doms are not considerate of other people's time! There I said it! I know I'm not considerate of people's space and feelings, but dammit, there are more important things than making a good impression! You don't need to take several hours cleaning and getting things just perfect!
Please help me understand this evil function. Yeah, I'm a slob. I don't know many young INTPs who are mindful about messes. I don't know many who are mindful about this social world you all seem to live in where sensibilities take priority and it is such a huge painful embarrassment when someone is acting outside that norm. I have just enough Fe to step into your shoes, but not enough tolerance to stay in them.
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