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family members who are everything the INFJ despises

Same, all my family gives me problems, I'm sort of like the weird oddball who is always getting criticize because of my personality :(
Me too. :hug: I always get told to be 'more social/more outspoken' and to speak up and not to be so quiet, and my older sister, who I admit to not taking a liking to, (rather mockingly) asks why I am so quiet. Perhaps they have a valid point and I'm just being extremely sensitive (something that I can't really help), but I have always been softly-spoken and extremely introverted, and it hurts me that they can't just accept that's the way I am. :(

...and yes, both my mum and sister annoy me for the reasons mentioned in the opening post and more- arrogance, lack of consideration for others, lack of empathy, shallowness, emphasis on appearance.....etc. Basically everything I despise in a person.