I've read that INFJ types are not competitive and dislike working or learning in those kinds of environments. I identify strongly with most of the iNFJ traits except for the competition part. I am fiercely competitive in areas which I consider important (i.e. academics). The strength of my desire to rise to the top is so overpowering, I instantly despise any potential rivals that I first encounter in a situation. The problem is I am also deeply ashamed of this volcanic energy within me. 'Competitive' seems almost like a dirty word to me, like it's wrong for me to be sending out such negative vibes into the air.
What do you guys think? How can I reconcile my competitive nature with also being an INFJ. Could I still legitimately call myself an INFJ if I am also so competitive?
Thanks... I feel that same tinge of shame even as I write this post!
What do you guys think? How can I reconcile my competitive nature with also being an INFJ. Could I still legitimately call myself an INFJ if I am also so competitive?
Thanks... I feel that same tinge of shame even as I write this post!