I have been.. But that's cuz I saw it as a challenge to try and find the 'softer side' of said individual.
Are you attracted to arrogance?
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As a man, I am glad I am not arrogant. You see, I like to be the -er, not the -ee.
cheers,
Ian
As a man, I am glad I am not arrogant. You see, I like to be the -er, not the -ee.
Touche.
I can see why people find arrogance attractive, however I think that arrogance usually signals for a deeper sign of insecurity...lol. I think if someone needed to assert themselves with arrogance, and can't be open about themselves, it would mean they were trying to cover up for something else. But, yes arrogance = sexy hey, you can pick your poison .
.I personally cannot see how arrogance could be attractive but there all kinds of people. I like confidence. I don't like braggarts. If you are a teensy bit of a show off for my benefit then you may get a smile out of me but if it's your habit to make an overbearing display of yourself forget it.
Arrogance repulses me. Although, sometimes people describe me as arrogant, and I can certainly see how they could make that assessment, however, my actions which others perceive as "arrogant" are usually my expressions of things which I am sure of. It must be quite a marked difference to my usual mode of quietly not accepting or rejecting/arguing against most anything in a subject I have not studied. I am simply not qualified to say.
So, arrogance, no, but I appreciate people who know what they are talking about and appreciate tenfold people that I can actively trust for information on any given range of subjects.
So, arrogance, no, but I appreciate people who know what they are talking about and appreciate tenfold people that I can actively trust for information on any given range of subjects.
Arrogance is a huge turnoff for me. I'm very attracted to humility, and, if anything, I'd probably be more attracted to someone with low self-esteem than to someone with an inflated ego.
Probably something to do with wanting to help people see their own value or something. (If I keep thinking about this, I'm sure I'll find a way to feel bad about it...)
Probably something to do with wanting to help people see their own value or something. (If I keep thinking about this, I'm sure I'll find a way to feel bad about it...)
Arrogant people can be fun to be around - as long as they don't take themselves too seriously.
People with low self-esteem, likewise can be fun - if they are lighthearted about it.
As for attracted - hmmmm..... I think I prefer people who are not particularly self-conscious, either in a self-inflating, or self-deprecating way.
People with low self-esteem, likewise can be fun - if they are lighthearted about it.
As for attracted - hmmmm..... I think I prefer people who are not particularly self-conscious, either in a self-inflating, or self-deprecating way.
No, it's a complete turn off for me, both in friends and partners.
I'm not pretending that I'm not like that myself sometimes, because I am, everyone is sometimes, but it's still a part of my nature I don't like and try to avoid/get rid of if at all possible.
I'm not pretending that I'm not like that myself sometimes, because I am, everyone is sometimes, but it's still a part of my nature I don't like and try to avoid/get rid of if at all possible.
I can agree with the witty arrogance I suppose to a degree, but more for the wit than the arrogance. Funny is just awesome...
