justeccentricnotinsane
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- MBTI
- INFJ
I've only just found out I had an account here. What d'ya know.
On another forum I was told I had a strong Ti and this seemed to me to be because I used logic a lot and I'm not sensitive to criticism about work etc, only about my actual character. I worry a lot if people criticise my moral fabric but someone criticising my work is helpful. How else are you to improve?!
But anyway, sometimes I got the idea that they were saying I had a strong Ti because I am very academic and would say that given the chance to go to uni and do something very academic and theoretical (cultural theory to be specific) or go help someone in some way (I don't know, charity or something), I would definitely choose uni. Also, I love debates. Not arguing, I don't see how arguing has any place in debating. Other INFJs back away from debates "in case anyone gets hurt", while I consider my opinions to be impersonal. I'm not upset if someone disagrees with me and I am able to politely disagree with other people in order to move a debate forward. To me, debating is about learning and improving. Without debate, we cannot go forward and we become stuck in our ways. I might believe that so and so political policy is better but if someone on the opposition convinces me otherwise, then that's fine. I'll change my view and I'll consider myself better for it.
They're right that I have a strong Ti, but surely a leaning towards academia and academic debate isn't anything to do with this?
It seems like T has a reputation for being intelligent, articulate and into academia and debate, while F has a reputation for all the softer things - emotions, sensitivity, helping people, forgiving people.
I can empathise with people (know instantly where they're coming from/what's going on inside) but I don't forgive them or give them chances. If I don't like what I see, I don't want to know them. I will never be unfriendly (although I'm sharp if some arsehole is being a nuisance around me and my friends - offending someone maybe - and needs to be told to f*** off!) and am basically always extremely polite. I don't see any use at all in not being polite and am very offended by others not conforming to politeness - I mean, it's really not that hard! But if I meet someone and I know they're a waste of my time (like maybe they're going to be self-dramatic and end up using other people or manipulating other people for their own ends) they don't deserve any of it.
Oh yeah, also "deepness" or profundity. There's often talk of mysticism, lots of expression of feelings, lots of poetry and talk of spirituality on INFJ forums. I would describe myself as a 100 per cent non-spiritual person. Logic wins out here. I logically don't believe in anything mystical and feel intuitively (rather than actually knowing the facts!) that ESP etc is simply impossible - I couldn't entertain it because I really don't understand how anyone can get to such a conclusion, it just feels far fetched. But I don't mind anyone else liking it. My Mam is REALLY spiritual about EVERYTHING! I don't mind, it makes her happy. So I'm not about to impose logic, I don't see why it matters. Is this a T/F difference?
The reason I identify as an F is because I prioritise people and their feelings above strict logic and I am never irritated by "illogical" beliefs so long as no one gets hurt (I'll fight against homophobia for instance, because not only is it illogical but it is hurting others). So surely, Ts and Fs are just as likely to be academics, just as likely to enjoy POLITE debate and just as likely to write people off (albeit for different reasons)? Surely cognitive functions have more to do with your priorities than your interests?
Or am I wrong? Does a strong Ti make you more likely to enjoy academia, debates etc? Is it more likely to make you write people off or be cynical (I'm very cynical but in 99 per cent of cases I wouldn't actually bother do anything) How much of this is also Ni?
Cheers
On another forum I was told I had a strong Ti and this seemed to me to be because I used logic a lot and I'm not sensitive to criticism about work etc, only about my actual character. I worry a lot if people criticise my moral fabric but someone criticising my work is helpful. How else are you to improve?!
But anyway, sometimes I got the idea that they were saying I had a strong Ti because I am very academic and would say that given the chance to go to uni and do something very academic and theoretical (cultural theory to be specific) or go help someone in some way (I don't know, charity or something), I would definitely choose uni. Also, I love debates. Not arguing, I don't see how arguing has any place in debating. Other INFJs back away from debates "in case anyone gets hurt", while I consider my opinions to be impersonal. I'm not upset if someone disagrees with me and I am able to politely disagree with other people in order to move a debate forward. To me, debating is about learning and improving. Without debate, we cannot go forward and we become stuck in our ways. I might believe that so and so political policy is better but if someone on the opposition convinces me otherwise, then that's fine. I'll change my view and I'll consider myself better for it.
They're right that I have a strong Ti, but surely a leaning towards academia and academic debate isn't anything to do with this?
It seems like T has a reputation for being intelligent, articulate and into academia and debate, while F has a reputation for all the softer things - emotions, sensitivity, helping people, forgiving people.
I can empathise with people (know instantly where they're coming from/what's going on inside) but I don't forgive them or give them chances. If I don't like what I see, I don't want to know them. I will never be unfriendly (although I'm sharp if some arsehole is being a nuisance around me and my friends - offending someone maybe - and needs to be told to f*** off!) and am basically always extremely polite. I don't see any use at all in not being polite and am very offended by others not conforming to politeness - I mean, it's really not that hard! But if I meet someone and I know they're a waste of my time (like maybe they're going to be self-dramatic and end up using other people or manipulating other people for their own ends) they don't deserve any of it.
Oh yeah, also "deepness" or profundity. There's often talk of mysticism, lots of expression of feelings, lots of poetry and talk of spirituality on INFJ forums. I would describe myself as a 100 per cent non-spiritual person. Logic wins out here. I logically don't believe in anything mystical and feel intuitively (rather than actually knowing the facts!) that ESP etc is simply impossible - I couldn't entertain it because I really don't understand how anyone can get to such a conclusion, it just feels far fetched. But I don't mind anyone else liking it. My Mam is REALLY spiritual about EVERYTHING! I don't mind, it makes her happy. So I'm not about to impose logic, I don't see why it matters. Is this a T/F difference?
The reason I identify as an F is because I prioritise people and their feelings above strict logic and I am never irritated by "illogical" beliefs so long as no one gets hurt (I'll fight against homophobia for instance, because not only is it illogical but it is hurting others). So surely, Ts and Fs are just as likely to be academics, just as likely to enjoy POLITE debate and just as likely to write people off (albeit for different reasons)? Surely cognitive functions have more to do with your priorities than your interests?
Or am I wrong? Does a strong Ti make you more likely to enjoy academia, debates etc? Is it more likely to make you write people off or be cynical (I'm very cynical but in 99 per cent of cases I wouldn't actually bother do anything) How much of this is also Ni?
Cheers
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