:-(.  I was gone for a day, busy with work, and now you're gone.  One of my favorite people to read on the forum.  I thought pretty much all of your posts were on point, and non-offensive.  AND I was looking forward to hearing your opinion on all the other messes I may (or may not) have gotten myself into.  Everybody needs a wiser INFJ with more life experience around...
So maybe you'll come back?