Recent content by uning

i don't know you so i can't tell are you or not. but supressing your emotions, wanting to be someone else and not being completely happy with who you are, having a hard time accepting your real self...call it anyway you like, i can't come up now with a better term than immature.

i couldn't agree more with you. same thing here. it's so much harder and complicated since guys are very visual and often have hidden motives for such friendships. i know it sounds harsh but those friendships could work only if they're both in serious relationships or at least one of them is...

yes we do feel. i don't think it has so much to do with F or T, every human being is different. i do feel but i don't act on what i feel, i base my actions on logic, but i don't ignore my emotions, i rationalise and analyse them. i know a few infjs who appear more like intjs because they shut...

infjs when you do or say things wrong and hurt someone you care about, a friend, girlfriend or boyfriend, mom or dad, just anyone you have deep feelings for, how do you feel and react? do you feel really guilty and dwell on it for too long not taking any action? do you freeze and don't know what...

we used to see each other every or every other day in the begining the relationship. now we only see eachother once a week. we've been together for over 3 years and he should spend more time with me and maybe even think about living together but he decided to see me less. i don't know what's...

for INFJ males- what characteristics should she have to fall in love with her? and what she should not have, what do you particulary dislike in a partner? describe you perfect girlfriend, a person you would want to spend your life with. or if you already find her, describe your better half and...

anyway i thought he was doing it to make me jealous. infj's tend to be insecure and that's where the jealousy steams from. i thought he did it to test my feelings to see how much i care. but why would you want to hurt someone you love? this can't be about that, right? numbers don't matter but...

is he an inconsiderate ass if he's repeating mistakes after me explaining how it makes me feel dozens of times? his excuse is he just didn't think enough about it and didn't think it would hurt me. he looks sincere so should i believe it? or i'm too naive and he is acting stupid (he is NOT) and...

i know you mean well, i thought about it too but i don't believe in it. it feels like a revenge or at least some kind of acting if you can understand me and i can't do it.

hi! this is my first post here so i hope it goes well. i think my long term boyfriend is a infj and i'm having some issues with our relationship. i just wanted to hear opinions from other infj's so i can understand him better and to decide what to do. here it is. he is talking TOO often about...