longer the relationship the less he sees me

[uning]

we used to see each other every or every other day in the begining the relationship. now we only see eachother once a week. we've been together for over 3 years and he should spend more time with me and maybe even think about living together but he decided to see me less.
i don't know what's the problem. something is going on with him. i can only guess his reasons since he's very private and it's hard for him to talk about it.
so i ask you guys infjs what is going on in his mind? are we drifting apart? can i do something about it? why would a male infj act that way?

 

[Ophelia]

I think he might just be stressed out about something. There are many reasons why a person could act that way. I wouldn't worry to much about it. Be calm.

 

[gloomy-optimist]

There're a lot of things that could compel him to do that...the best way to find out would be to talk to him about it. It could be disastrous to assume.

 

[sumone]

Is he still affectionate? When you do see each other does he seem happy? The others are right, it could be one of any number or any combination of things.

 

[54192&#cmy]

I agree. He just may need his space.