Recent content by StarsPer

Voltaire once said, "I know how to hate because I know how to love." I have experienced as much myself, though I have never encountered anyone aside from us that has echoed this understanding or experience.

It seems to me that most people haven't actually stopped to explore this, simply accepting the globally preferred model for romantic love as the ideal, even the exclusive option, without scrutiny or conscious basis. I thought it might be nice to actually hear some articulations on what about it...

I wrote this a few days ago, seems relevant: By default, I do not suffer fools or assholes gladly. Sometimes I wish to, and at other times I refuse to. And, to be honest, I am comfortable filing almost everybody under at least one of these categories. Unfortunately. There is an untamed...

Going off of the "What kind of men do INFJ women like" thread that's somewhat popular right now, I thought this would do as well. Personally, my partners have to be very intelligent. And they have to really care, or be naturally pretty empathetic. Without these things, I'll just feel alone...

Love and Hatred

Hmm.. lot of people are reminded of the INFJ doorslam by this.. here and on TC. Maybe this is more INFx related. But I am also getting a lot of confirming feedback for this to do with INFPs and even INFPs with INFJs specifically.

Hey, putting this up here and at TC because I'm really curious about this: I've recently come into watching for this behavior in INFPs and wanted to extend the observation to all of you to get some more input. From my experiences I've had first-hand or been around in my personal life, I've...

I'm talking about real isolation, not being home alone. Some others seem to understand this as a hard truth about life and suck it up and continue on with life in that circumstance. I don't know how to do that. This life feels empty and miserable without human connection. I can't get over...

yes in my case

Thanks for the response, all of you. I'm working in those directions; not overthinking it, not investing much in it and even myself trying to put her in the friends zone. I may come write of how it went when it's over.

So. After reading the latest of many ENTP INFJ threads around the net last night, I decided that I should make one entailing my circumstance as an INFJ (guy), with an ENTP (gal), which is driving me crazy from trying to understand it. I came across this persons myspace page back in 2007 or...