Recent content by Roughroughmagic

You see Ginny, that's the 'missing puzzle' for me - I admit that I don't know that much about his personality type so I couldn't really tell where it is just an observation and where projection starts... I also wasn't very fond of his 'modes' but I thought it is just my personal perspective...

Hello dear, thanks for sharing your story. I could relate to it so much! I don't think that there is anything surprising and strange about your job affecting you so much! Because just think about it - we spend most of our time at work and if what we do is not the right thing for is, it is a...

Hello my lovely people, I just watched this video of a fellow INFP who shares his insights about INFJ: As someone who is not a INFJ himself, I think he did a great job of analysing our behaviour. But I have to say that the main thing that really caught my attention is his description of how...

I couldn't agree more! Perfect way to put it!

Darling, that sound pretty terrible to me, to be honest. Because it seems to me that desire to be the most important person comes from very unhealthy place... You're a couple, not a master and his obedient mistress. You don't have to worship him and do everything so he can feel significant...

I feel like to really understand your situation, it has to be put in a wider context. So: do you feel like it's just this particular case of him being controlling or he can be also controlling about other aspects of your life? And more importantly: how he reacts when you reject any of his ideas...

Thanks for joining the conversation! I think trying various roles, it's a big part of discovering what we want to do and what we prefer. I laughed when I read all your 1), 2) and 3) points because I felt like I was reading my own thoughts :P I have very similar desires and preferences - I prefer...

Great that both of you @Ren and @jkxx found roles that push you out of your comfort zone. I can imagine that it can be very difficult sometimes, but probably is very stimulating. I really appreciate that self-awareness that you both have about what kind of tasks and environments encourage growth...

Hello my fellow forum users. I am sure that some of you are happily married/are in happy long-term relationships and I would love to find out what are your thoughts about finding the right person and creating a relationship that gives that sense of security. - How you found that right person...

Hey you! Stop hating yourself! Right now! :biggrinhug: Your capacity to love your friends so much really moves me. (So please don't hate that wondering human being who has so much love and empathy for others ;) :<3:)

Comment ça va? :P (sorry, I haven't been learning French for more than 2 years so I am squeezing my brain very hard to make any sentence :P) So is that true that Switzerland is so beautiful and idyllic? Sending a big hug to fellow INFJ!

No worries, I didn't take his post personally :p I don't like this kind of negativity, but at the same time I can imagine INFJs being assholes (like... ehmm... every other type of personality can be :p) so this is why I decided to just respond without any prejudice towards him. I really like...

Well yeah, I admit that I got a bit confused why this kind of resentment was expressed in this thread but I didn't want to jump to the conclusion about the intention :P

Well, my response to that would be that personality type is one thing but mental health is another. And I personally really dislike idealizing INFJs like just because someone happened to have this type, then they like walking saviours of human kind...Sooo exaggerated, really.

Hello Ren, great to see a message from you. Does investigating serious crimes affects you somehow emotionally or you've learned how to distance from yourself from it? It's really great to hear that you have a job that gives you, as it seems, sense of purpose. Sounds like a very complicated job...