Recent content by petir

As a gay person, I’ve always fantasized of talking to a potential love interest offline.(something along the lines of hey i’m sorry if this comes up weird but i just think that you are the most beautiful person i’ve ever seen). I do realize that this is weird especially for us gays because...

Let’s start by saying that I am a quiet on most social situations. When you don’t talk much people make assumptions of you and treat you based on their assumptions. These assumptions could be negative or positive, and the ones who made them seem to believe this to be a part of you although you...

That's me at work.. Led to everyone thinking that I am antisocial. It's a lose-lose situation. Definitely. Life is all about learning. It just gets tiring on some days that despite meaning well, most people misunderstand my intentions simply because I can't express myself the way I would want...

Does anyone here ever feel like you offend others when you talk? That has been the central issue of most of my relationship with people. At my most comfortable state, I talk in an impersonal manner and have a slightly brash way of conversing (it's the way I was brought up). In this case, people...

Surprised everyone here had a nice childhood. I remember my first day of pre-school I did not want leave my babysitter (who sent me to school) so one of the teachers thought it would be a good idea to tie me up against a pole in the school courtyard, in the shade. I was horribly embarrassed and...

This is exactly the reason why I created this post:smiley:. I want to say it is because of them and not us but I know we take it into ourselves when things do not go as planned. Yes. Now to just find someone that is willing to go through the whole steps with us in this modern world.... Sounds...

This! I would argue that this does not stem from commitment issues but due to the exposure of numerous options one can get from dating apps. @Faye yes. prep is the only good thing gay influencers are advocating imho. open relationships and all that just becomes an excuse for people to...

Single gay male INFJ here. Just moved to a new city over a year ago. Still do not have a friend I can hang out with on a constant basis and am desperately looking for one. I’ve been hanging out with this fellow gay guy (we met through instagram dm) who has been with his partner for one year...