Recent content by littlemissmaya

as someone who can swing both ways here is my 2c: male infj: possibly not / definitely not. female infj: 2 months ago, possibly not. now.. maybe to a hell yeah! met this girl who can read my mind and think and say the same things and has the same compassion and caring attitude for other...

sounds to me like you are already on the right track. don't worry too much about (lack of, or reserved) public displays of affection, intimacy - that might take some time to build up as does her trust and confidence in you. if you really do like her, keep up the good work so far.

Hiya, how patient are you and how much do you really like this guy? In my opinion you really have only two options at this point: - leave now (as others have suggested) and save your feelings from being hurt any further, especially in case he is not that interested in you - one reason for the...

i am in my mid (or is it late? i really don't know anymore) 30's but perceived by most people to be in my mid to late 20's. i still occasionally get requested for ID when purchasing alcoholic drinks (and the legal age of drinking alcohol here is 18!). i attribute looking younger to genes, jeans...

it may take several conversations, maybe a bribe or two in coffee or other hot beverages, and good company to really get to infj's head. there may be layers you need to peel away before you are trusted enough to be privy to the deepest thoughts, knowledge and feeling. i need to understand.. out...

i talk, i joke, i smile. worked well for me! i should now shut up, be serious and stop smiling, coz i'm no longer lookin'

can you take the counselling path on a part-time / casual basis? sort of like, try before you buy. perhaps do some shorter counselling courses (if there are any) and use those skills to help people in your community, outside the hours of your full-time engineering / programming role. see if it...

that is awesome, a lot of us here would be glad to hear it's going well! enjoy your time and don't take each other for granted. time is too short and love is too scarce in this world.

think of it as one big adventure, with lots of alone time to recharge. bring books, cross-stitching, music, videos to keep you company when you are away. i have had to travel for work in a previous job, there are places in country new south wales (australia) i would never have imagined to go to...

replace tears with omg, wow, amazeballs, wth is this is sorcery and then my brain crashed, and then it all kicked in and finally, acceptance. i no longer have to be afraid about my quirks, social anxieties, and reading about infj has given me focus in life, and confirmed my longing to help...

1 and 2... GOOD 4 and 5... can be fixed, with time. reassure her that she is special and your previous relationship was a. not important b. wasn't in your destiny c. wasn't her fault, and she meant to be your soul mate 3. choose something else, not so formal, other than dinner. ten pin...

i don't think i enjoy recreational reading while under the influence of caffeine!

although i don't seem to have as much time for it now, i love books. my best ever part-time job was working at s second-hand book store - it was like unleashing a child in a toy store for me. my favourite genre is fantasy / science fiction, drama, history, some action thrown in. amazing how...

weird. kind. smart. stubborn. gentle. funny. trouble

my relationship with my istj man developed from months of friendship and attention when we got to know each other and establish how much we clicked and what (little) we had in common, what we looked for in life and just hanging around so much. we got together at the tail end of an easter holiday...