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Recent content by Gobias Industries

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    How do you relate to your avatar?

    Because yeah, I cried watching that scene in Up, and dammit i will not be shamed by that lol. Also, I love Mad Men. On a more serious note, I can guarantee that I will (in fact i have already) go through the kind of pain and loneliness that Don went through in the scene that came from, and break...
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    Any major personal changes in the last year?

    A few people began to really open up to me, and I, for the first time in my life, began to reciprocate that, and from it I started to develop the kind of friendships and relationships that are actually fulfilling to me, anyway. It made me feel more valued and important, and allowed me a...
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    age difference in a relationship

    Eh, it's a case by case basis. It mostly depends on the people involved.
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    Why do you live? What for?

    The hope that my hopes and dreams might be realized. That's like holding on by a string for me though. Honestly, I don't know that I really have a good reason. Part of me thinks I'm just here.
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    Friend in an Abusive Relationship

    I agree, she needs to stop talking to him. But I can't do anything that'll guarantee she'll stop talking to him, all I can do is tell her that that's what I think she should do.
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    Caption the Picture

    whoops. Accidentally made it twice. :P
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    Caption the Picture

    "Still think the blue stairway isn't the reason why people don't see our crippling self-consciousness, honey?"
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    Caption the Picture

    "Still think the blue stairway isn't the reason people don't see our crippling fear of failure and self-loathing, honey?"
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    Describe your process of forming thoughts to verbalizing them

    I just rethink the same set of thoughts over and over again until I suddenly figure it out for no particular reason. It's like those card things I was into when I was younger, where I would constantly buy card packs and get the cards I already had, but every once in a while, I'd get the one I...
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    Friend in an Abusive Relationship

    Well, they've broken up again. He did it this time because they were arguing, but I guarantee he was just trying to get to submit; she didn't. And she seemed excited about it being over, but I'm a little worried he might manipulate her back into the relationship. I let her know that was a...
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    Friend in an Abusive Relationship

    I'm thinking about consulting a therapist to see what they think of the situation, and maybe get some advice on what I can do. That said, what I'm currently thinking I might do is talk with her and try to get her to verbalize her feelings about the relationship, what she wants in a relationship...
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    "do you need a cage?" "please, I'm a magician." (puts dove in blazer, walks into door, and there...

    "do you need a cage?" "please, I'm a magician." (puts dove in blazer, walks into door, and there is a crunching sound) "what's your return policy, by chance?"
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    Friend in an Abusive Relationship

    I will say that, so far, I've done my best to bring her focus on how she feels about the relationship by asking her about how she's feeling during the cycle, why she thinks she's in the relationship, what she feels for him and why, etc. I have worried that I might be imposing my opinions and...
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    Friend in an Abusive Relationship

    We have talked about it, and I've let her know that I think the relationship is abusive and that I don't think it's healthy for her. It is definitely not her first relationship, and as a matter of fact I believe that a previous relationship contributed to her getting and staying with this guy...
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    Friend in an Abusive Relationship

    I really appreciate all of this everybody. I feel somewhat better about the whole situation, and every one has provided a desperately needed fresh viewpoint. I definitely feel like I need to at least be there for her, and I have made it clear that I won't judge her or anything and that no matter...