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    Creative Blog - please visit!

    Thanks so much! It's an idea I've had for a while and as I've just started it, I'm trying to get some readers :) I think hopefully it will appeal to other INFJs! If you start your own, please do let me know - I'd love to read it!
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    Creative Blog - please visit!

    Sigur Ros are great! I'm trying to keep the blog self contained so I won't be posting it on her but I would LOVE it if you posted your comments there - just trying to get some discussion going on the blog :) Thanks so much for visiting!
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    Creative Blog - please visit!

    It would help if I included the link, right?! :) http://kmuseings.wordpress.com/ Thanks!
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    Creative Blog - please visit!

    Hi all, I've just recently started a blog and would love some feedback on the entries. It's a blog about things that stimulate the senses - music, art, video etc. Some INFJ readers would be great :) I plan to update daily is possible... Thanks!
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    Second Love

    Is it possible to truly love 2 people? What did falling in love for the second time feel like? Did it make the feelings you had for your first love disappear? If you've ever truly loved somebody, what did it feel like for you to move on and fall in love with somebody else?
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    Eternal lonliness

    Wow. Thanks for all the kind words and the useful advice. It's so nice to know that there are others out there who feel a similar way :)
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    Eternal lonliness

    Sometimes I just feel so alone, like nobody knows/gets me, and nobody ever will. How do I deal with this? What's the point in being here is my life is so solitary? Why do I feel so unable to feel connected. Is this a common INFJ feeling? Do we just expect too much from connections, and are...
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    Some questions about Love

    Some question I'd love to hear other INFJs opinions on: What does love mean to you? What is the difference between romantic love and familial or platonic love? Any Experiences you'd like to share? Would you rather be loved or love? Why? Is love taught or natural? :) Thanks!
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    "Official" MBTI test.

    INFJ 0 Extraversion, 21 Introversion, 0 Sensing, 26 Intuition, 0 Thinking, 24 Feeling, 13 Judging and 9 Perceiving!
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    How often have you fallen in love?

    Although I have loved and do love many people (friends), I've only ever fallen truly 'in love' once. Unfortunately, I have never really been able to act on it because the feelings have never been mutual. Still, it is the most beautiful (and somewhat terrifying) feeling I have ever experienced. I...
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    Biggest Source of Frustration as an INFJ

    Wow. I relate to almost everything mentioned in this thread! It's always a relief to know that there are others like me. To add to or reinforce what's already been said: Being able to read/understand people and situations too easily is sometimes difficult. It gets in the way of normal...
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    Thinking positive

    I actually believe that your natural degree of optimism is something that is 'ingrained' within you. I've always been a naturally optimistic person, tending to see the good more than the bad. So I appreciate that optimism might naturally be easier for me. However, I do think that you can...
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    break-ups.

    For me, it's most definitely more difficult to dump somebody than to be dumped. If I dump somebody, I tend to feel responsible for their feelings as well as my own, whereas if I'm dumped, I only have my own feelings to deal with, and there is no confusion as to whether it was the right thing to...
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    Extreme Introversion, Three Lefts Making A Right

    I absolutely get this sometimes. It can be a little overwhelming. My mind feels like it is overloading, and I am processing a billion thoughts together in an instant. I could liken it to watching every channel on TV, all at the same time :) Usually, it does produce some sort of 'clarity'. I do...
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    How does an INFJ show interest?

    1. How would you try to catch the eye of another person? Usually when I like somebody, I'm too shy to intentionally 'catch their eye'. I might appear "less interested" in the person, unfortunately. 2. How would you respond if they tried to catch your eye? I'd be awkward? Smile maybe.. 3...