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    Inspirational videos

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gYim4jHRuE
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    Best thing anyone ever said to you

    "He's a nerd but he's so fucking cool." I love my friends
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    Say something positive about the previous poster.

    I'm guessing just me is into lighting/nature photography judging by the avatar, which I find to be a really cool trait
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    Male INFJ musicians

    Avey Tare of Animal Collective seems like an INFJ to me. His music/lyrics/whatnot definitely seem to reflect the INFJ skeptical view of a beautiful world. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nyEA-4UjlOU
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    Is it sensible to marry for love?

    I think it would be irrational to marry for any other reason. However, "love" doesn't necessarily mean romance imo.
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    Investigating for INFJ love

    Just in how they would channel some of their awkwardness; I've noticed INFJ males in uncomfortable social situations tend to remain silent, save for a handful of lengthy times they will talk about a single subject, and INFJ females often tend to try to come across as overly "girly". I don't...
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    Investigating for INFJ love

    As an INFJ, I guess I mostly look for girls who don't need a partner. As in, not totally looking because they already have a sense of contentment without one, but adding a significant other would still be a plus. Mostly a girl who doesn't try to "understand" anything about me, and doesn't feel...
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    How do I turn down an emotionally unstable person without further hurting them?

    The band aid analogy is probably the best way to put it imo. Also, the last bit is what worries me the most usually. I'm still dealing with a certain girl who I told months ago I wasn't interested in, though she continues to try to invade my life in any way possible.
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    How do I turn down an emotionally unstable person without further hurting them?

    This is probably the best solution. As much as I would rather not cause any more damage, it's probably best to do so immediately.
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    How important is physical beauty in attraction for you?

    As a few others already pointed out, someone's outward appearance is usually a kind of manifestation of their personality. That being said, there's definitely a kind of aesthetic I look for because it's generally a good sign of how a girl's personality will be. I guess this tends to vary from...
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    How do I turn down an emotionally unstable person without further hurting them?

    I don't know if this is a common dilemma for the INFJ, but I have a tendency to occasionally attract extremely emotionally unstable women because I tend to be an empathetic person. I never have intentions to prey on vulnerable women, yet I've discovered that simply being kind often misleads them...
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    Last film you watched, Part 2

    I revisited 964 Pinocchio last night and was reminded of how much I loved it. It's probably the only movie I know of that can rapidly shift between cute, disgusting, and nightmarish and still maintain a watchable flow.
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    Is Feminism Outdated?

    I meant that that is the cycle for "alt" movements, but ya it's always occurred.