Your very welcome, I didn't realize I was doing anyone any favours. I guess in expressing yourself honestly, it really does help others, because then they realize they aren't so alone in their problems, and also we can address it too. I feel like I wish I could go to a psychologist, and find myself an "INFJ" specialist, who could help me figure things out - but until that happens, I guess all we have is each other to help find answers.