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Why Would An INTP Stare Into An INFJ's Eyes?

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    This recently happened and I'm not sure what it means. Any body language experts here?

     
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    Not a body language expert. Duly noted.
     
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    It's okay. *pats @acd's head*
     
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    Depends on what sort of "stabbing" you're referring to.
     
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    Let's hear some more about this eye contact!
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    A lot depends on the individual person and context. Intps can be a little "odd". If this was an intp man, and they were interested in you, and they've read prolonged eye contact can create "a bond"? They might try that in perhaps a quite unsubtle way.

    That's pure guess work though.
     
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    Perhaps, although I don't think it was planned. That would be more of an INTJ move imo.
     
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    True. My brother is intp, and whilst it might well have been unplanned, I'd guess there was some reason for them to do it. Unless that's typical behaviour for them.
     
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    Either interested or didn't know what to say for 5 seconds, depending on what you were doing before/what else was happening.
     
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    *Hint* We weren't playing chess.
     
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    Oh.

    If that means what I think it means, then I'm not totally sure, but if it were me it probably would have just been out of wanting to look at you. We all know that men can enjoy doing that to women. :p

    That said, I may or may not be a good example, so take it with a grain.
     
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    Yea why the hell would anyone look at anyone. Look at your phone like a normal human being.
     
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    I don't even know what eyes are!
     
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    ^^ :tearsofjoy::tearsofjoy:
    New thread idea. :tonguewink:
     
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    I once dated a nice INTP girl for over a year...and what @James said rings a very familiar bell for me. Looking back on it I would say that she was... Odd. Different. Impressionable but not weak. Gentle and yet almost experimental in a very innocent way. As if she was tying to implement new ideas based off either her perceptions or whatever impressions had resonated with her.

    Quirky.

    Keep the quirk.
     
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    God I fucking love this comment. Like x10
     
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