For the last couple of years, people that have raised red flags for me personally are people that think that because they have intense feelings they can project them onto other people, make them feel uncomfortable, all under the label "venting" and "validation". It is a sense of entitlement that feels oppressive. Yes, we all have a right to the way we feel, but please show some consideration for others too. They have feelings too. These are generally the type of people who won't really listen to you or others. Red flag for me.
