How often do you feel that others lack understanding of you?
- Almost all the time but that's probably not true. I think people understand more than I realize, they just choose not to acknowledge it - they simply treat it as any other difference.
How often do you feel that you lack understanding of others?
- All the time. I'm less aware than I think I am
I'd like to think I'm quite aware and knowledgeable about the world around me, but not as clued in as I'd like to be.
What are the limits of being understanding?
- the belief that you can achieve complete understanding. You can think you know, but that arrogance can create blindness to other levels of understanding or knowledge. Being too understanding can be a con because then you end up spending so much of your time being understanding about things that you don't appreciate mystery or the unknown, and you don't give people the chance to surprise you.
What are the bad aspects of being understanding?
- See above.
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f you have this power to -force-; whether it's other people's understanding of you or vice versa, how often would you use it? Would you use it at all? Why?
- 25-40%. It violates freewill so, at some point, I'd feel like a pain making someone do what they don't want to do. It wouldn't be a real or authentic interest.
Is there any point where it starts becoming toxic?
- Yep, encouraging people to understand each other better can be good if it limits discrimination and creates more equal opportunities and greater recognition for diversity/differences in our society or culture, but if it becomes an obsessive personal need to be understood or appreciated, then you forfeit your life; you're not really living. You'll find you're on an unending search for that understanding and recognition which may lead to dependence on that need, and ultimately, continual dissatisfaction with life.