Dislikes:
By far the biggest one: when I was a child of seven or eight, I thought that everyone saw the world like I did - except that this isn't something I could possibly reflect on until I was very much older of course. And it's just not true that they did. I found that I was an outsider at school among the other kids - disliked or at best tolerated, and always having to try and be something (someone) I was not in order to fit in. This knocked hell out of me, I was continuously stressed out as a result and couldn't understand why I was so unhappy. I was lucky that both my parents were NF types and home was a safe haven - also as I grew a bit older, I found that I was clever and could get some positive feedback from the adults around me by being clever, with a good dose of Fe to spice it up (again all this only seen with hindsight). It's only looking back now over 60 years later that I can see how being a seven year old proto-INFJ can go badly wrong in a class of predominantly ST types. Frankly it sucked big-time for me!
The next biggest dislike is Ni /Ti looping at 3am, particularly when things are going wrong, or there's a lot at stake - it would be really good if God provided an 'Off' switch. Oh yeah - then there's the loop replaying of past times I've messed up and hurt someone or got into some stupid conflict - these improve with age like a good wine, and I can roll out things from 50 years ago as though they happened yesterday and spin round the same old guilt trip over and again.
Like others have said here, I don't like the way society rejects many ways that we use Ni, and how that forces our Ti to usurp it all too often. I've probably spent a lot of my life acting as an ITFJ
Likes:
The sheer magic! As I got older, I realised that most people live in a world that seems to be dull and boring compared with my own - almost as though, metaphorically, I have my own Narnia to go to.
The way I can see how everything within and without is all part of an incredible inter-linked one-ness that's filled with glowing life and light.
I like seeing and knowing things intuitively that can't be fully expressed in words - I do enjoy translating these into words sometimes, or pictures, but it's never more than a perspective. It's a great feeling when I can get enough out for positive feedback on the inner insight from other people.
An interesting one: - I like context shifting, being able to hold different world views at the same time even if they contradict each other. There is an idea that INxJs become stubbornly committed to their inner visions and find it hard to see alternative viewpoints. I think this problem is caused because it takes a lot of mental energy for us to put a complex intuition together and it can't be easily unpicked to accommodate an awkward new bit of input. We respond by jumping to Fe and Ti, which immediately closes down tight on the issue - but this is an acquired response that can be unlearned fairly easily by switching off premature judgement. One way to deal with it is to sleep on something contradictory rather than responding immediately, and let Ni do it's job of synthesis in the 'dark'. Another way is to actually create a separate complex intuitive vision that includes the new information, without any initial judgement, and hold both visions at the same time, switching between them. We can do this any number of times and have many different worldviews once we've got the knack. It's a delightful and rewarding experience letting Ni loose on things like this without contaminating it with F or T judgements - of course they are needed eventually but they should be subservient to Ni not it's master - as I said above, Ti is all too ready to displace Ni given a chance.