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Discussion in 'Relationships and Sociology' started by Yuigahama Yui, Feb 8, 2019.

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    I understood what your comment to the OP meant. My door slam remark was about the theme of the thread (converting a Muslim to Christianity out of "love"), not about your comment to the OP.
    Yes, of course learning about one's SO's interests is good for a relationship. :) I definitely wasn't offended by the idea of learning more about Islam.
     
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    Yuigahama Yui

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    No.. that's not what I meant... I really do love him and I accept him for who he is.. I'm sorry if I offended you I didn't mean it like that
     
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    I have been christian. I am not anymore. I do believe in the GOD of Israel.

    imo it is easy to look at this personification of the devil and say that is the bad guy. It is easy that way to not take responsibility for our own actions.
    We can be devils ourselves when our ego is in a negative state. We can keep our ego and devils in check with humility.

    “True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less.”

    Whatever you do stay humble, and your father above will get you what you need.

    Maybe Psalms 121 will comfort you.
     
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    Hmh.. For heads up: I'm not religious myself, I respect this though, and my dear little sister of choice if muslima who married a former convinced atheist who joined her religion.

    > From this perspective I want to point towards the meaning and significance that both of your religious communities (and family, friends etc.) have for each of you seperately first of all.

    I know right now you might be very entangled in your feelings (especially fears and uncertanties) and the "sudden" changed relationship you found yourself in after censoring yourself.
    It's worth stepping back and seeing the context of the situation and of what you both are in - plus the question if it's about having a relationship (which ultimately can't be seperated from your different communities - and which is not primarily about your concrete differences in your belief of God) or if it is about "sharing feelings of love" nontheless, which can actually have various wonderful faces.

    This is not an answer but there might be questions and focus involved to help you cope and rebounce for now.

    I wish you a peace of mind.
     
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