so embrassed by lack of any relationship experiance,finding it hard to start one.

When nothing works and all else fails, there's always tequila:

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I'm only kidding and I hope I didn't offend you. Ah, I remember being fresh out of college, like it was the night before last....*sigh*, the memories. I graduated with a degree is bio as well.

Just be confident in who you are man. Not the cocky, arrogant, false confidence, but the real, comfort inducing kind. I wouldn't get too discouraged. Eventually, you will find someone.

 

Get a wedge of cash together and book a flight to amsterdam

Go to the red light district and have yourself an epic bacchanalian spree of debauchery matched only by the last days of rome

Once you've shagged yourself stupid you can chill out in the hash cafes

Book yourself into a cool hostel with lots of pretty foreign backpackers and try your luck with all of them shamelessly as if the world is going to end tomorrow until one or some of them agree to go out for a drink or clubbing or whatever

There's also the pubs and the shows...oh and cultural stuff if you have the time!

You'll come back with the swagger of john wayne and the panty dropping indifference of bogart

You'll be free to make a complete tit of yourself, wake up in a gutter having found you've lost all your money through a hole in your trouser pocket that you hadn't noticed until the morning and you'll shed rejection like water off a ducks back knowing that success is always just around the corner for those with a determined approach

Just make sure you play safe and always tarp up as you don't want to be left with any unwanted souvenirs from your adventures

 

Don't get drunk..it will fuck up your game

2-3 drinks over an evening is optimum

 

Do not overthink. Just put yourself out there like a peacock showing his feathers, or a ram/goat ready to crush his opponent's skull for the female and say to yourself "this is the dawn of the mating season".

 

You're overthinking it.

 

The thing about drinks is that you can keep on drinking but after a certain point you ain't getting any funnier or smarter you just think you are!

Ok forget the debauched and depraved rampage through european sexual hotspots....

Perhaps the best way to meet someone is through doing something that you enjoy doing; that way you already have something in common and also you have a reason to meet up again

You can keep meeting up to share the activity in a perfectly innocent way as you get to know each other better and that way things can develop at a natural pace; this is before there even needs to be any mention of a 'date'

Worst case scenario you make a friend and best case scenario love blossoms

Are there any activities or interests you enjoy that can be done socially?

Regarding lying about your experience...don't do it. When crunch time comes just be totally honest with her and she'll likely take you by the hand...

 

And remember...only 2 or 3 drinks a night!

 

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Yeah, showing her what's your deal is always a good place to start. I would caution against getting your hopes too high for only one woman though, if you want a long relationship just for the sake of it, you're on the wrong track imo. Just relax, get to know some women more, put yourself out there more in that area, be more shameless.

 

Well if you're free and single there's a lot of things you can do with your time which someone in a relationship cant, an empty house is better than a bad tenant.

 

Apart from a lack of experience, the only thing I can see tripping you up is your preoccupation with your lack of experience. The more you focus on your short comings and failures instead of accepting it as a fact that every beginner must contend with fewer successes than someone who is more familiar with the game, you're going to rob yourself of the vital component that attracts a partner and that is confidence.

My advice is to build yourself up on the successes you already have and do everything in your power to raise your level of general confidence. Abandon this need to analyze and think of yourself as something broken that needs to be fixed because that sort of thing broadcasts itself even without you directly communicating it. Take pride in your achievements. Put effort into your clothes and your appearance. Pursue and accomplish goals that are important to you. And while you're doing this, take dating on as a side project because you will have the residual confidence from the other aspects of your life as a foundation to build your relationships on.

Essentially, what I'm saying is, keep at it. Continue going on dates. Continue talking to and pursuing the ladies. Don't let yourself get discouraged because you're a beginner. Being 24 and doing this for the first time is not a bad thing at all.

 

Idk, some women like men who haven't slept around.

 

This is very true too.

 

It seems you're making progress.

Maybe ask the girls why they don't want to date you.
Furthermore, it's tough, but keep trying!
It doesn't seem like you're extremely insecure or that you're not trying. You just have to keep trying. I'm in the same (or similar) boat really.

 

You are on the right track.

I know it's easier said then done; you are going to have bad days and moments of self-doubt, because that sort of thing kind of comes with the territory of being human, but you will push through them. I can already tell you're going to be just fine.

 

Don't listen to any PUA bullshit.

You seem to have bought heavily into an assumption that romance and stuff is super important and world-crushingly amazing. It's not. I think you should try to be less insecure about it.

But...