Martinville
Regular Poster
- MBTI
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 5w6
When I tested myself with an MBTI test (multiple times), I was intrigued to find out I was an INFJ. I recognized a lot of the things mentioned mentioned about INFJ's. Feeling different and struggling with things like many on this forum. However my intuition was complaining about the test itself, like a little sceptical voice in me questioning this test as I have written in a blog. This was not without reason I found out later on. Did you know that psychologists reject this test as unscientific and inaccurate? The test was created by a mother and daughter without any scientific training! This is a big red flag! The biggest pitfall is that the dichotomies are binary. Like with most people things are not so black and white with me. For instance, if you score 51%, does that mean something is so much more dominant and absolute? Ofcourse not, you would neglect the simple fact that people come in many forms and sizes with a unique set of characteristcs. Second, it is disproven that things are always opposites, like introverted and extraverted. This is thru for the whole test. So basically no 16 types exist, it is a hypothecial constuct in the mind of its creators. Do you really believe the world is diveded into 16 types? I was once 'mistyped' as an INTJ, because my T and F are pretty well balanced most of the time, having a slightly greater preference for F. However, that is not the only case of mistyping...and the outcome was different and even more exotic.
The experiences I have read on this and other fora are genuine, like I have been genuine. What I can't agree with is that we should feel special because we are INFJ's or xxxx. INFJ's are supposed to be rare, but so are a bunch of other types. The difference is a few percentage points. So, making it part of our identity is just wrong. What is thru is that as human beings we grow and for instance learn to harness our intuition and rational thinking to make proper choices in life.
Only truth can set us free and the truth is that we don't need a bad test to figure out who we are. Labelling ourselves as INFJ's or anything else is not going to help us discovering who we are. A bad test might help us to discover more about ourselves and eachother, but on the long run it might cause confusion. This test certainly was an interesting start of a small journey to learn more about myself and others. The things I have learned made me wiser, not the silly test.
What is a better way to figure things out? Maybe by talking with experts, people who know us well, and by taking tests with a better reputation than a biased MBTI test?
Now I hope that you, my dear reader, had no knowledge about the things mentioned above. If you have, ask yourself: why do I believe in something proven false? Is it a feeling of being misunderstood by society and relatives and feeling accepted here? Your feelings are genuine and I hope you feel accepted Just don't sell it as INFJ or any other MBTI type. Avoid making it a cult like thing and accept that you are trully unique! This gives me hope: to know that man has more in common with his/her fellow man than he or she knows!
The experiences I have read on this and other fora are genuine, like I have been genuine. What I can't agree with is that we should feel special because we are INFJ's or xxxx. INFJ's are supposed to be rare, but so are a bunch of other types. The difference is a few percentage points. So, making it part of our identity is just wrong. What is thru is that as human beings we grow and for instance learn to harness our intuition and rational thinking to make proper choices in life.
Only truth can set us free and the truth is that we don't need a bad test to figure out who we are. Labelling ourselves as INFJ's or anything else is not going to help us discovering who we are. A bad test might help us to discover more about ourselves and eachother, but on the long run it might cause confusion. This test certainly was an interesting start of a small journey to learn more about myself and others. The things I have learned made me wiser, not the silly test.
What is a better way to figure things out? Maybe by talking with experts, people who know us well, and by taking tests with a better reputation than a biased MBTI test?
Now I hope that you, my dear reader, had no knowledge about the things mentioned above. If you have, ask yourself: why do I believe in something proven false? Is it a feeling of being misunderstood by society and relatives and feeling accepted here? Your feelings are genuine and I hope you feel accepted Just don't sell it as INFJ or any other MBTI type. Avoid making it a cult like thing and accept that you are trully unique! This gives me hope: to know that man has more in common with his/her fellow man than he or she knows!
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