note: for the purpose of this thread we are assuming all abortions being conducted are NOT the result of a rape or sexual assault.
I find the pro-choice argument quite contradictory.
A woman is able to decide if she wants to keep/abort the child, but a father has no say, even though if the child is retained he will be forced to pay child support.
You may have many views about this, lots of opinion.
The most common one is that's is a woman's body and therefore she has a right over it, no one else. She would have to carry a child for 40 weeks, and would have to go through the pains of childbirth.
The father will have to be paying money out of his pocket for 18 years after birth.
Which is a bigger price?
The attitude towards fathers who would like a different choice other than the mothers, such as to abort when she wants to keep the child, are treated with such bitterness. Simply, don't have sex if you did not want that responsibility.
But unlike women, men do not have an 'opt out' option. They are completely surrendered to the rights of the women, while, apparently, no one has the rights to a women's body but herself.
There are two things that I can think of which would solve this pressing problem.
1. Give the father of the child equal rights over whether the child is kept or aborted. If he wants it, he has a say. If he doesn't, he also has a say. The choice is not ultimately the women's but it is equal. How to settle disputes, I haven't determined that.
2. The father may opt out of paying child support pre-birth if he does not want the child. It must be before the child is actually born though, just like women must make the decision to abort before the child is actually born.
I would like your opinions and point of view. What are some alternative options to this, what do you think, do you have any plans to make the say more 'equal'?
I find the pro-choice argument quite contradictory.
A woman is able to decide if she wants to keep/abort the child, but a father has no say, even though if the child is retained he will be forced to pay child support.
You may have many views about this, lots of opinion.
The most common one is that's is a woman's body and therefore she has a right over it, no one else. She would have to carry a child for 40 weeks, and would have to go through the pains of childbirth.
The father will have to be paying money out of his pocket for 18 years after birth.
Which is a bigger price?
The attitude towards fathers who would like a different choice other than the mothers, such as to abort when she wants to keep the child, are treated with such bitterness. Simply, don't have sex if you did not want that responsibility.
But unlike women, men do not have an 'opt out' option. They are completely surrendered to the rights of the women, while, apparently, no one has the rights to a women's body but herself.
There are two things that I can think of which would solve this pressing problem.
1. Give the father of the child equal rights over whether the child is kept or aborted. If he wants it, he has a say. If he doesn't, he also has a say. The choice is not ultimately the women's but it is equal. How to settle disputes, I haven't determined that.
2. The father may opt out of paying child support pre-birth if he does not want the child. It must be before the child is actually born though, just like women must make the decision to abort before the child is actually born.
I would like your opinions and point of view. What are some alternative options to this, what do you think, do you have any plans to make the say more 'equal'?