In pod'lair theory, INFJs are most attracted towards ENFPs and vice versa. I agree.
-Jah
Yeah. For better or for worse, ENFPs more than any other type... own my heart. I always friend-zone my NTs. We get along just fine, but for me it's only ever in the friends way.
I had a female INTJ online friend for a while. The Ni connection was just so interesting. I loved hearing her thoughts on things, was amazed by how they mirrored the patterns of my mind, and I loved her vulnerability. She had some guy problems, the way I bet a lot of the female INTJs do. But... that spark that's, IMO, necessary for romance was verily missing. I wish it would have been there.
I always have great conversations with my ENTP I know IRL, but it feels like her interests and inclinations are so different from mine. She talks a lot about physics and her theories as to the world and the universe-- which is cool, but not what I spend my time thinking about. She's really interested in the Occupy movement, for some reason. I talk to her about MB, psychology and relationships, and she's happy to listen. We even share some of our very deep feelings with each other. She told me once that despite her inclination to the sciences and to the theoretical, that she feels dumb. I confessed I felt the same way at times. At the end of the day, however, even though we're so comfortable and open with each other, I don't feel that raw attraction and deep emotional connection I always have for and with the ENFPs in my life.
Something about being around the right ENFP is so surreal and I love the effect they have on me-- in my mind, in my heart, in my body. With the last ENFP in my life, that I write about here all the time: my heart starts pounding when she's close; I get the deer-in-headlights look when she talks to me; I worry all the time what she will think of me. It just feels so much like I love everything about her, from the way she dresses, to the way she talks, to the way her mind works. I love her smile and the way she seems so childlike and carefree. I could say a lot more, but I won't.
I think everyone has that one type that, like an omnipotent arrow, is able to pierce the armor perpetually worn and cut straight to the heart, just by being them and by being there. What an interesting feeling.
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