I have noticed that INTJs don't like to verbalize their emotions. Is this something that changes in time, or are you so content with reading the other persons emotion that you have no need to say anything.
Which leads me to my next question. Do you require verbal affirmation?
One of the oddest things (in a good way) i've noticed between myself (INTJ) and my INFJ is that we are perfectly content with not saying a word regarding how we feel about each other. I would say on average I will say some things when the mood is right, but I would never say something just to say it. (Like most people seem to do)
We seem to just "know" that the other is extremely happy/sad/frustrated ect. I'm wondering if this is the shared Primary Intuition?
I think I personally would like to hear a heartfelt word of affirmation when the situation is ideal, from time to time. I don't need this affirmation to confirm that the other person does indeed care about me, but much more so to simply heighten the experience. I would rather someone tell me "I Love You" once a month, if they really meant it deeply. I don't require, or even particularly like repititious words of affirmation, because they lose their meaning.
I'm going to throw one more question in here that is completely different.
Question Number Two!
Do you enjoy explanations of the nature I gave above? I sometimes feel like my need to explain every facet of a situation could annoy someone, but I just can't help it! I would like to think that someone would appreciate the genuine thought and effort I put into my explanations.
INTJs do require verbal affirmation regarding our ideas and thoughts however. So Question Number Two requires a honest and well thought out answer. Pretty Please. =)
(I keep looking at the monkey emoticons, and they still freak me out a little bit. I think it is because they are so "cute". They must have some sort of malicious intent... just wait and see....)
Which leads me to my next question. Do you require verbal affirmation?
One of the oddest things (in a good way) i've noticed between myself (INTJ) and my INFJ is that we are perfectly content with not saying a word regarding how we feel about each other. I would say on average I will say some things when the mood is right, but I would never say something just to say it. (Like most people seem to do)
We seem to just "know" that the other is extremely happy/sad/frustrated ect. I'm wondering if this is the shared Primary Intuition?
I think I personally would like to hear a heartfelt word of affirmation when the situation is ideal, from time to time. I don't need this affirmation to confirm that the other person does indeed care about me, but much more so to simply heighten the experience. I would rather someone tell me "I Love You" once a month, if they really meant it deeply. I don't require, or even particularly like repititious words of affirmation, because they lose their meaning.
I'm going to throw one more question in here that is completely different.
Question Number Two!
Do you enjoy explanations of the nature I gave above? I sometimes feel like my need to explain every facet of a situation could annoy someone, but I just can't help it! I would like to think that someone would appreciate the genuine thought and effort I put into my explanations.
INTJs do require verbal affirmation regarding our ideas and thoughts however. So Question Number Two requires a honest and well thought out answer. Pretty Please. =)
(I keep looking at the monkey emoticons, and they still freak me out a little bit. I think it is because they are so "cute". They must have some sort of malicious intent... just wait and see....)