Hi, I've only just started dating an INFJ at first I didn't even know what the 16 myer-briggs personality types was even about. We both met via a dating website and our conversations seemed to be a great match. Not only when we spoke online but also in person and I feel so comfortable around him and I too make sure he is comfortable around me. Anyway I decided to check his profile info on the dating website again and he listed that his character is mostly that of an INFJ and so It got me thinking what is an INFJ?. I did some research and it has lead me to this point, knowing that he's an INFJ now makes a whole lot of sense because he definitely does fit this personality type. I decided to take the myer-briggs test to see what mine was and I mostly fit in the INFP-T category and can see why our relationship even if it's just as friends at first is a little sluggish. Maybe I'm reading into this too much or over thinking things a little but now knowing his type I'm scared that maybe if he has decided that we're not compatible or I don't meet his expectations he will just choose to ignore me and stop seeing me. He's definitely not the initiative type to ask me out on a date or to go somewhere however he has been to every event and date that I've suggested we go on which is great. But now I feel I may have over stepped the boundary and kind of pushed him into doing something he may not want to do. I've asked him to plan our next date and he just said, sure I'll get back to you. It's been an entire week and he has not send any hints on where our next day or evening out together will be. We've only spoken briefly during the week just texting to one another in which I initiated the conversation to keep that contact with him going. I just wanted to know how his day was and so on and told him good night. It's been 3 more days since that conversation took place and now I'm just wondering would it be ok for me to contact him about now? or should I wait a week or two to initiate another conversation with him. If another INFJ can please shed some light on this situation I would greatly appreciate it. We have only been on 3 dates and it's been 2 months since we first met, is this usually the norm for INFJ's to be dating at such a snail pace? As I like him I don't want to be over pursuing him as I too am defensive and do not want to end up hurt or hurting him in the process. So If anyone has any suggestions please let me know maybe other INFP's or INFJ's can relate to this topic.