I am also a manager, and am responsible for around 35 employees. I do not believe this would be possible if I did not have reasonably good use of Fe. Like you, I want to explore it in a more conscious way. So good to converse with others who understand!
Do you find that it comes naturally to be a leader? Or did you come in to that role through being asked to step up?
Being a manager / director is NOT something that I see as my forte, nor did I seek out the position. I was asked to take on the role, and did so with the hope that I could make a difference, and because of my relationships within the organization.