...your first relationship? By relationship I mean first serious relationship, but I assumed that for most of you both things would have occurred together. (I could be wrong though!). How did it happen? Were you friends first? Did you initiate contact, or show any interest? (Note: you don't have to answer the questions, they're just guidelines, so you're more than welcome to write whatever you feel like writing). I'm just curious about how a relationship develops the infj way (having never been in a relationship).