My boyfriend gave me a little tip when I was trying to curb my cravings for things that I shouldn't be eating. He said "SpecialEdition, if you feel hungry but you don't feel like eating any of the healthy foods that you like, then chances are you aren't actually hungry but are experiencing a craving."
I put that thought process into practice and I realized it was true. Sometimes my brain wants to think I am hungry and it was to justify eating bad things, but it's not because I actually have a physical hunger. It's my brain anticipating and indulgence and trying to rationalize it.
I don't really see a problem with an indulgence once in a while because I think it's actually good to not deprive yourself completely.
It makes it a lot easier for me to say "OKay, I REALLY want to eat X, Y and Z right now. RIGHT NOW. But I know that if I eat it right now I'll feel like shit about it, but if I wait until the meal that I have planned it for, then I know that it's within my plans, I know I have control over it, and then I can actually enjoy it without guilt."
So, I'm curious about healthy ways to curb appetite. Sometimes, I indulge too much in treats I enjoy, sometimes going back for seconds, which I'm not proud of. What's worked for you?
Yeah, that's true. Sometimes, I kinda wonder why is it I'm eating when I'm supposed to be full, since I ate not too long ago. And I realize it's indulgence, it's the knowledge that I know it's there and can just go pick it up. So, I'm thinking of using substitutes for "real or heavy foods or treats" maybe an option. I agree with the less carbs diet. I've been getting a little tired of the large amount of carbs especially since I've heard carbs don't make you feel full, but increase your appetite. Sometimes, I try to drink something instead, if I feel hungry, such as fruit juice, especially apple. But of course, that's a lot of sugar.
Yes, I don't want to cut myself off from having something I enjoy entirely, because I think suppressing leads to binge eating later on.
This is also something I'm experiencing is the guilt. I hate feeling guilty after I ate something I know I shouldn't have. I feel silly and then focus on feeling bad the entire time but nothing changes. So, I'm hoping an avoidance-avoidance approach will help, meaning "if I don't want to add more weight, AND I don't to feel guilty about what I'm eating after I've indulged, then it should be easier for me to gradually stop." So, I need to find things to motivate me, things I want vs. things I don't want to help me put things in perspective and find a better balance of meals throughout the day so that I'm likely to stick to something healthier on a regular basic, an approach to eating that I can manage.
Today is a "carb" day for me, though. I am slow cooking a big roast with some potatoes, carrots and onions, all of which are carb heavy. I bought a really high quality vanilla ice cream and I am putting it on top of a brownie I will be baking. That should get me a lot of carbs and also my indulgence.
5-HTP works wonders for some people too![]()
Find something else to do and don't keep stuff you want to eat. You simply have to build up the willpower at some point. It is all too easy to say "I don't want to cut this out entirely because then I will binge!" because in a way you're giving yourself permission to binge by predicting you will do so.
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