Hey!! 

I'm an ENFP seeking advice about the confusing behaviour of an INFJ guy friend
We were childhood acquaintances but only got to know each other as friends in the last year. Within a few months, being the ENFP I am
ersevere:, I confessed to him that I was starting to develop feelings towards him, to which he didn't reply for a few days. He then replied that I freaked him out but did not really answer to the confession. I took it as a rejection and we continued being friends.
Over the next 6 months, we got even closer and hung out etc. He started to openly show concern and protectiveness. He also sent recordings of his singing love songs/suggesting songs too. He also called me beautiful and clarified that he was trying to "flirt". Lately, he's been sending songs about lovers who have to part for now as the time isn't right. He also gets real quiet/ignores the topic or text completely if I bring up guy friends in our convos etc.. When we hang out with other friends, he keeps me in his peripheral vision but doesn't look directly at me i.e. ignores me throughout but when we text later, will comment as though he's been watching me all day
However, when we discuss about the future, he will deny keeping in contact i.e. saying that if we were still in contact, to let him know if I managed to get my dream job. Or that he doesn't think I'm that cute
(though this was quite some time ago) In our last conversation, he said we shouldn't hang out (or he shouldn't hang out with any girl?) because he's not ready for a relationship and it isn't religiously proper to do so. He also told me that I should know that he would not confess to anyone even if he liked the person out of shyness and lack of readiness. He also mentioned that he likes to stay a mystery and...... I'm not sure if this has any relation to anything lol.
I'm now confused if he even has feelings towards me. It sounds like he saw our hanging out as dates already??? And since he is a shy person.. I would think he wouldn't just send songs and call me beautiful if I was just a friend right? )= He got shy after he sent me his singing and stayed away for a few days.. It's just getting too confusing now.. I need to decide whether to move on or wait...



Over the next 6 months, we got even closer and hung out etc. He started to openly show concern and protectiveness. He also sent recordings of his singing love songs/suggesting songs too. He also called me beautiful and clarified that he was trying to "flirt". Lately, he's been sending songs about lovers who have to part for now as the time isn't right. He also gets real quiet/ignores the topic or text completely if I bring up guy friends in our convos etc.. When we hang out with other friends, he keeps me in his peripheral vision but doesn't look directly at me i.e. ignores me throughout but when we text later, will comment as though he's been watching me all day
However, when we discuss about the future, he will deny keeping in contact i.e. saying that if we were still in contact, to let him know if I managed to get my dream job. Or that he doesn't think I'm that cute
I'm now confused if he even has feelings towards me. It sounds like he saw our hanging out as dates already??? And since he is a shy person.. I would think he wouldn't just send songs and call me beautiful if I was just a friend right? )= He got shy after he sent me his singing and stayed away for a few days.. It's just getting too confusing now.. I need to decide whether to move on or wait...