Personality wise she's an extrovert, hands down. I'm not. Since she was little she always had a ton of friends surrounding her but none of them really were at the intensity of my friendships which were far fewer. She'd have 20 friends to my one friend. That isn't what people typically think about with identical twins; sometimes people see twins have strange co-dependant relationships who sometimes live with each other into adulthood. Ammie and I never had that and don't have that. We were both individuals and never relied on each other too much; my parents made sure of that. I still never really felt like I was ever alone, though. I never really had to do anything technically alone. Not even was I born alone. I don't even have my own birthday (which Im glad I hate attention!) I share everything, my looks, my DNA, my birthday, my parents, with another person.
I never got in trouble and she always did. She is more aggressive and ambitious. I'm stronger than her, emotionally. I'm more stable and can handle just about anything, I think. I don't think she can. She seems a bit fragile.
Things I notice like even today, we both still play some of the sports we used to play for fun..both of us are good at sports but she is better than me because she's aggressive. I'm just not as aggressive. She has no problems with jumping out in front of someone to get the ball. She does it naturally, and I don't. If we play co-ed sports I'm even more reluctant to be aggressive. This reluctance happens naturally to me and it doesn't to her. It's something I think is cool about her because she takes that into every aspect of her life.
Physically we are almost the same except she's a bit softer due to a previous eating disorder that I didn't share that destroyed a lot of her muscle which she hasn't been able to recover to this day. She's been getting botox injects since her early 20s so I have some expression lines that she doesn't have. She parts her hair on the left and I part mine on the right. She is left handed and I'm right handed. I'm sure there's more to say. Could probably go on forever about how we are different and how we are alike. It's fun having an identical twin. It's been a cool way to experience this life.