Yes, INFJ as counselor, a notion first coined by David Keirsey,...
At some point in their lives, INFJs realize they are seeing things that others aren’t and thus have greater access to certain types of truth and wisdom.
*One issue is in waiting to be asked before offering the insights. Often we dive in with our perceived answers before others would like us to. Some individuals are looking to be listened to regarding their issues and not necessarily to have us "fix" the issue.
@Sandie33
This may be an older post, but I'm glad I stumbled upon it. Your words resonate with me, loudly. Lol.
I struggle with this. I am quick to offer a resolution, advice, to whomever, for whatever they discuss with me, even if they don't ask for it.
I believe that when I do this, it's often because I'm trying to prove that I was listening and that I do care. It's easy for anyone to say "I'm sorry you're going through that," or some other generic response. For me, it feels unnatural, and I want to go the extra mile to show that I was listening, whole-heartedly, and that I do want better for them.
But, you speak truth when you say that others are not necessarily looking for that.
Work is another hard one. I feel like I have the answers to so many things. And if people would listen, everyone's lives at work would be much better. And the clients would be happier as well.
I always struggled with not understanding why other people just don't
get it. This related to INFJs having "greater access to certain types of truth and wisdom." I think I need to work on remembering this while I'm working with others. It might help me lower my frustration levels. But... it's so friggin frustrating!!! ugh.
I just had to vent for a moment about that.
Your words are soooooo real!
Thank you, Miss Sandie! ♥