No, I'm not picking a fight. I'm really baffled that you would say that, and quite frankly I find it really rude. I am really, really doing my best to be civil. I'm not "trying to make you look bad". I'm trying to figure out this situation as best I can, which is difficult when you're making assumptions as to my motives and accusing me of all sorts of things.
I'm saying -- you said I was "guilt tripping" people and that I "complain too much". I'm just asking you to point out exactly where I've done those things, as I feel I haven't actually done them. But if I have, I'd rather know so I can avoid such behaviour next time.
Also, you are welcome to reply to this via PM if that's how you'd prefer to discuss the issue. Either way is fine with me.