Recent content by whynot

woah... thank you :)

good ones! INFJ: I told you so. INTJ: What do you mean we haven't talked in three weeks? INTP: Hell is other people.

thank you. :)

thanks!

thank you!

Good advice, thank you. I have to keep practicing that it's not my problem to deal with... you're right, I have enough of my own!

thanks for your thoughts... the only problem with me being the one to stand up is that i was told these things in confidence and i absolutely can't say something. 1. it's not my place 2. the people who tell me these things trust me and it would potentially ruin my relationships with them 3. it...

Recently, I feel like I'm surrounded by dishonest, selfish a-holes. They preach love, communication, honesty, etc., yet secretly do awful things to the people they claim to love. I hear about these things because people know they can trust that it won't go further if they tell me, but I just...

my intj takes our relationship very seriously, but also has a hard time with the romantic stuff. when we first got together, he laid out the details... what he expects from me (consistent honesty, loyalty, trust and to not sweat the small stuff), what i should expect from him (which exceeded my...

i agree that this is the main reason it happens... and it's a little disturbing. i would never cross that line, but to each his (her) own, i suppose. i know many girls that have done this... and it's consistently been an issue of self esteem. i've also lost friendships b/c they've done this to...

i second this one. how much easier it would be...

Thanks guys... I appreciate the input. Good to know it's just a way of coping. My bf's a T and it's great because even though he cares deeply for people, he's more logical about emotional situations and can reel me back in when I get too upset. No doubt. I exercised religiously up until a...

Not sure if this will make sense, but here's the most recent situation: My bf's sister in law (brother's wife) left his brother a few days ago. She took the kids and said she was miserable. I am very close to his brother and the kids, but never got along well with her... she came off as being...