Recent content by Solongo

if i am hateful for defending my friend while he is not there to defend himself, then be it. at least i know who my friends are and i am not one to sit around while people shit on him for who he is. you don't even know him to even be part of the conversation. take your shit somewhere else shit...

you welcome :)

If you study how society is structured to categorize people; most fall into the outer edges of odd and different because society likes to find one size fits all solution to variety which is nature's best offering. So if you do not fit into the selected categories; society will do a very nice job...

Most infj's are mature or old souls in a world dominated by young and infant souls. Also most infjs tend to have mystic qualities; being able to exist within the physical and spiritual realms. Most western society is based on material and competitive and scientific perspectives that devalue what...

this is interesting and i came to the same conclusion. Almost the same way we NEED love; we also NEED others.

Loving; loving others, loving ourselves and learning to give and receive love is pretty much everything. It is the underlying motivation of all relationships; with ourselves and with others and it is definitely a NEED on many levels. But the issue is there is many illusions that prevent love...

I find that most people just want to share and be understood more than seeking advice. Because of this I have stopped giving advice in person; unless the person specifically asks for it. On the internet; it is a little different because an opinion and perspective can be seen as advice; the same...

I dreamt few days ago that i was in my old college classroom and for some reason there was a huge blob or swollen tongue that kept preventing me from speaking to the class. no matter how hard i tried; i just couldn't speak or the words couldn't come out and my mouth was full. i woke up thinking...

did God tell you this? did he specifically tell you he has criteria for in which souls occupy physical bodies? i do agree that there are no mistakes; hence all forms of existence and soul incarnations are perfect in it's own way.

I had agoraphobia at certain periods of my life. the feeling has diminished a lot in recent years since I started developing my spirituality because it helped me gain perspective on my fears instead of fearing facing my fears. Like depression it tends to be cyclical. When I stopped seeing my...

thanks for the rep :)

Indeed. Intellect is the ability to adept to change. There is no separation between the Mind and the Heart; however if the mind is heavily influenced by the ego and/or the heart is heavily influenced by emotions and feelings without rational understanding; the imbalance can create the...

It's the ultimate battle between one's authentic self vs. the self we create for public consumption. Being authentic and true to our innate nature and personality implies that we are not "swayed" by external stimuli, influence and force. No matter how tempting to be swayed and to have our ego's...

yes; gestation period definitely. but i think my ego was also got in the way - trying to define my art and questioning it's purpose and i allowed the negative criticism to take hold.

I seem to socialize only when I am participating in an activity with other people who share the same passion for the activity. I get to meet many people with varying backgrounds so I get my fill of socializing. Outside of these groups I don't make attempt to socialize unless it is a work or...