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    Aiming to do good, but accused of doing wrong

    I am helping a disabled child in a neighboring community.
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    Aiming to do good, but accused of doing wrong

    Thank you for your supportive comments, Trifolum, Flavus, and The. And I don't think my work is half bad.
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    Aiming to do good, but accused of doing wrong

    I design original hand-crafted bead bracelets and have received much positive feedback for my attention to detail and eye for harmonious colors and patterns. I am currently using my skill to raise money for a boy in a neighboring community who needs a special wheelchair-adapted van. 60% of all...
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    Unwanted attention directed at your partner:n what would you do?

    In all fairness to my dearly beloved, he blocked her on FB.
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    Unwanted attention directed at your partner:n what would you do?

    First, I have no reason to believe that my husband would fall into her trap. He has done everything in his power to send her an unmistakable message that he is not interested. She's young enough to be his daughter, which is enough to turn him off by itself. He also does not go for skinny women...
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    Unwanted attention directed at your partner:n what would you do?

    The good news is that he is now sitting in the front of the classroom, and she is in the back as far away as possible. He says he plans to ignore her. He had friended her on Facebook, but then blocked her after this fiasco. He was advised that once a woman who knows you're in a committed...
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    Unwanted attention directed at your partner:n what would you do?

    My husband is openly affectionate toward me when I visit the school. He has directly told his class that he loves his wife and will not risk jeopardizing our marriage.
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    Unwanted attention directed at your partner:n what would you do?

    That's on point, SpecialEdition. What's even worse is that now another classmate invited her to the church my husband and I just started attending. She apparently plans to get transportation from the church van, which my husband and I also use. I do not like this one bit. I don't think her...
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    Unwanted attention directed at your partner:n what would you do?

    I am an INFP married to my dual, an ESTJ. How would you cope if another woman (or, if you're male, another man) kept chasing after your spouse/partner although he/she firmly told the would-be interloper to knock it off in unmistakable terms? Give type, please. My husband and I have such an issue...
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    MBTI taken- finally!

    Absolutely. My test administrator explained to me and my husband that although INFP's are not planners or schedulers, the classic SJ structure and scheduling actually lessens our anxiety.
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    MBTI taken- finally!

    Last Friday, my husband and I both took the official Myers Briggs Temperament Inventory. Just as I suspected, he is an ESTJ. I am an INFP. So, can I still hang out with all of you awesome people?
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    What Temperament Are You?

    You Have a Melancholic Temperament Share...
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    Have you ever cut someone out of your life?

    Please read that as she had a baby with a guy who was 14 years younger.
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    My ESTJ daughter is graduating next Friday

    My ESTJ daughter, who majored in science (biology, to be specific), is graduating magna cum laude from University next week. She received a prestigious award for Most Broadly Accomplished Biologist. I am so proud of her! Are there any INFJ's who are drawn to the sciences here?