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'Just' as in 'simply'. It isn't any better. That was the point. You should. It's not about you, you know? These people enjoy talking about their preferences and doing it in a carefree way without being judged. That's why they made a community of like minded people here. That's the way you...

Or maybe she just likes that kind of guys more? Are you giving the rational approach a shot on this forum only because you can't "win" this kind of "discussions" on a forum of a much more rational type (or against people that care about the rational approach to this subject)? You should really...

As a matter of fact, I was going to suggest that we go see a movie if she seemed a bit uncomfortable today. Are movies mindless enough? Depends on the movie I guess. I don't see anything wrong with trying to avoid another "disaster". I mean, she likes movies, I like movies.. We both like...

Oh, I can relate alright. I don't usually bother with showing my true colors to people that I don't like or can't relate to. The thing I do is more like a pulse.. a probe of some kind. Just in case I misjudged the person. If I get a pulse in return then it becomes more like a storm. I've...

This is most probably incorrect. We talked a little bit more and she said that she'd like to meet up again. Some more coffee on Thursday. Speaks enough for itself I think. :) I think that's exactly what happened. And I'll definitely take your advice on that in my future online endeavours...

Yes, I am comfortable with the level of sharing I did with her. But I probably wouldn't do it again if I had the choice with anyone except someone who appreciates it as much as I do.. Maybe not even with them. I'll have to think about that. Well, she maybe wasn't comfortable at that time, but I...

:m194: Did you say.. ...failure? I don't do... failures :P Failure is such a strong word.. The results were more or less expected. It was obvious to me from the start that a balance between the 2 approaches is necessary, but nothing can replace first hand experience. You might say I wanted...

I'm starting to think that there should really be a balance. At least between my behavior and this extreme I tried with her. I usually don't share much with anyone until they have my complete trust. Here I wanted to see how the completely opposite approach works.

I need a little bit of advice or something like that. Yea, I know its long.. Didn't intend it to be.. Ah well :) I've come across another (I have a knack for it :P) INFJ girl (I'm a dude) on a certain website and... Some background first.. :) The 2 months worth of mails we exchanged were...

Cuddling is da bomb.

Thanks guys :) Really appreciate the input. In my case it was pretty correct. She did, in fact, ask me out... I was gonna wait a little bit longer, but she jumped me.. You must be prophets or something :) And what about the first few dates? What are the things I should keep my eyes open for...

Hey there :) My first thread on this here forum. Anyway, I took the idea for this topic from an INTJ forum and I almost feel bad because of it... Almost :) I'm interested in knowing what would an INFJ do/say that would show that s/he likes you, without simply stating it directly. Let me...