Recent content by moonsorbananas

I would try to figure out why they did it...and if the explanation isn't good enough or doesn't sit right with me, or if I know I had to no real fault behind what they did (like I was there for them, spent time with them, provided needs, was open etc.) then I would say goodbye to the relationship.

Please, if you go to either school and you're interested in psychology or counseling, please major in Social Work. It is the more practical degree. Your focus can be clinical, it's the same as giving therapy, psychotherapy. UCLA just seems like the better school. I would go there for the...

I appreciate all of your guys' comments. I know. I try not to judge people and try to make them fit in my "ideal" world. my ideal world is where everyone is loved and accepted and happy. lol. but i understand what some of you are saying...that it's important not to be disappointed with people as...

I have doorslammed people. I did it when I was younger and less aware of myself. I cut out two friends who seemed to really like making me feel bad about myself. I regret doorslamming them. I was like 13 or 14...but I was happy to not feel bad about myself anymore. I have doorslammed some...

I got the same :)

You'll stay as active as an 18 year old! You will do lots of things you barely have the energy to do now, like dancing and going to the gym at 5 am. You have your regular bingo night, and you drink like an Irish man at his prime. Age is nothing but a number!

Thanks so much. I was aggravated by her statement. I told her I am not horrible and it is my opinion after all. I'm glad you agree with me! lol...

What do you think are good examples of superficiality??? :)

So very true...yeah, thanks....essentially I am thinking too much...heh :)

So, I am vain :'(

Are INFJs shallow? I find myself wondering if we are all shallow or if that is just me. First of all, I love all people and consider every person to be beautiful; however, I am very critical of my own appearance. Also, when it comes to a mate, I 100% have to be attracted to him. I want him...

ENFJ! Your ideal partner is known as the Teacher. This type needs to feel a deep and meaningful connection to his or her romantic partners, and goes to great lengths to understand and please their mates. Harmony is vitally important to them, and they often put others' needs before their own...

I got purple as well :)

I have to learn how to be this way. I think since you're older, you have a better developed Ti than me. For me, my Fe can take control and I want to please everyone around me. Even if these people have hurt me or have made it clear they could care less about me or getting to know me. I hope that...

I try to put on fronts when I feel nervous...I'm like really clumsy and lame...but I try to appear cool...not cool...but calm. Inside I usually have good feelings for the people around me; sometimes I want to talk to them and sometimes I don't. Mostly when I am at the store or something, I don't...