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    [INFJ] Hyper & Inferior Se ?

    Oh god when I try to not act so shy and uncomfortable (I have bouts of severe social anxiety) I just end up being really loud and annoying. Also when I get drunk I go from being sweet and calm to aggressive, loud, slutty (for me which is just flirtier and more assertive), and I apparently stop...
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    Empath Test

    Your Super Serious Title is: The Planetary Healer Empath Your Total Score: 78 out of 80 Your Out of Control Healer Score: 9 out of 10 Your Protection Tools Score: 25 out of 25 How Much You Mirror Others Unconsciously Score: 15 out of 15 Your Appreciation for Nature Score: 10 out of 10...
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    The Soul Type Quiz

    Hunter 12 Caregiver 15 Creator 18 Thinker 12 Helper 12 Educator 9 Performer 6 Leader 8 Spiritualist 18
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    [INFJ] Each time you fall in love..

    I'm only 19 so I don't have a lot of experience but I'll answer the best I can with what little love I have given and received. Yes, in a way. Everybody I date is an individual, so how could it not be? I don't see love as wise or deep, but I think it becomes more genuine as I grow as a...
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    Things to know for being with an INFJ male, from an INFJ male

    Wait... When you drag girls into the heavens do you put a spacesuit on them first? Be a considerate date and make sure your lady friend doesn't die in the cold vacuum of space. Obviously INFJ males don't need to worry about this since they're already out of this world.
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    Enfp females: The Infj male destroyers?

    As a bi/gay leaning female: I can't handle ENFPs generally, and I've tried too. We seem similar on the surface (deeply feeling, creative, intellectual), but deep inside we're completely different. We get into fights because they think I'm spineless and a martyr and I think they're selfish and...
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    Single Fathers?

    If you can do it, then awesome for you! If you're happy, a good dad, and your kids are happy then who cares what other people think about it? Best of luck to you with this :)
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    [INFJ] On MBTI types

    Hmm... I don't necessarily know if I have dreamy eyes :P Mostly I've been told by people that my eyes have 2 modes: on and off. On: Staring directly at you, searching your face. Curiosity permeates through every other emotion and is the default state of my eyes. Off: thousand...
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    Truth or Truthiness?

    Not to nitpick, but not everything in science is theoretical. Most things are, but laws do exist in science. They're physical laws though so exceedingly obvious to anyone who can observe anything. Most people will be able to tell you that if you drop a ball from the 12th story of a building it...
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    Hypothesis for typing infj's on sight

    You mean you can't just feel people's auras and type them that way? Filthy casual.
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    song to describe INFJ

    This one got to me (especially the 2nd verse). http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4y8wHGlyMDs
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    INFJ's darker side and anger

    I can resonate with the OP very much. When I was younger and people used to make me annoyed I'd pick at them a little bit just to get back, or I'd make them hurt because they made me hurt. Luckily I grew up and learned that was creepy and manipulative as fuck, so now when people make me mad I...
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    What's your opinion on sociopaths?

    I think they're people with mental disorders and should be treated as such.
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    Why is validation from others so important?

    Speaking for myself, I find myself needing a lot of validation even though I put up an "I don't care" front (I'm sure others can see through it though). Most of the NTs I know don't outwardly need validation from others the same way I do, but they need reassurance from their loved ones. My ISTP...
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    "People Pleasers are Underrated"

    Being kind and accommodating isn't the same thing as being a complete doormat, though I can see how people who have never been inclined towards helpfulness would see either as a sign of weakness. Most of those people seem to be highly guarded and hurt though, and their cynical viewpoint is more...