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    Laser Eye Surgery

    My husband just got LASIK on Wednesday, actually. It was about $3,000 USD for both eyes. We wouldn't have been able to afford it if his ailing grandmother hadn't paid for it as a gift. For us, it was a loooong day. I think the worst part about this whole thing would be the waiting and...
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    How many hours should a person reasonably work each week?

    I can comfortably do 20-30 hours a week without getting burned out. I only had a 40 hour a week job for a month. I was forced to leave due to other circumstances, but the whole time, I felt as though my life was nothing but work, especially since I only had about 1 1/2 hours of free time on...
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    <3 the username!

    <3 the username!
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    Borrring. My life=internet, at leas until I get over this virus! However, I do have an interview...

    Borrring. My life=internet, at leas until I get over this virus! However, I do have an interview for graduate school next week! How 'bout you?
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    Well hello there! :)

    Well hello there! :)
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    High School Horror Stories

    I was bullied in elementary and junior high, but not really high school. I was a pretty good student, never got into trouble, and was liked by most of my teachers, especially by my English teachers. My peers were a different story. Not many people were really mean to me, but an as adult, I...
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    best of / worst of [pt 2]: jobs you've worked

    Best: Probably when I was a tutor at my University's writing center. It felt great to be helping people, and it was an overall excellent and relaxing work environment. Worst: My current job. I work at a group home for kids with MR/DD. I've been kicked, scratched, pinched, smacked in the face...
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    Gender stereotypes and cliches

    I, Lilchamor: Male: -Hate cooking most of the time. -On that note, am hungry most of the time. -Cannot sew for the life of me. -Like working out. -And looking at my abs in the mirror after a workout. -Have too much self-esteem. -Bossy. Female: -Like going to the mall. -Can do my own nails...
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    The Friendship Continuum

    Yeah, I thought it was just me :D Either I click with someone really fast, or hardly at all.
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    [PUG] The "English Only" Movement

    There are many countries where children grow up learning to speak and use two, three, or even four different languages...Why not the US? Why restrict ourselves to English when there are countless benefits in learning multiple languages from birth?
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    I want (insert member here) good looks :D

    I want the left eyeball of everyone on this board. I shall start me a collection.....
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    The Nice Guy

    If a guy talks to me at all out of nowhere, or pays special attention to me at all, I assume he's interested. A guy usually don't start talking to and hanging out with a girl because he needs more friends in his life. He does it because he's attracted to her and sees her as a possible...
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    Correlations between enneagram and MBTI type

    I tied for 3 and 1.
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    I met an INFJ. She's amazing. We've had some great talks. I don't want to ruin this. All input w

    One of the biggest turn-offs for me was when a guy bought me a present during a first date. He may have thought it was sweet and romantic, but to me, it said he was desperate, that he had already put much more stake into our "relationship" in his mind than I ever had. So, yeah, no flowers. I...
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    INFJs.com

    I think a lot of you are being unreasonably harsh on a newbie who is still trying to figure things out. OP's question is a perfectly valid one. I don't feel that OP is saying "GO AWAY ALL NON-INFJs". I think he/she is just asking why the majority of members are not INFJs, and a lot of the...