Recent content by LifesWonderer

Move on, seems you are trying to convince yourself he cares and loves you... afraid not (people cannot love others when they refuse to see past their own needs or mental health issues), sadly we cannot heal people too emotionally scarred to accept or share unconditional love, as you note in your...

No, no faulty thread post 'Started by kri, 02-09-13 12:30 PM'... yet somehow I was able to 'add content' instead of reporting issue :(

kri's original post that should have been here (yet somehow disappeared making me the 'thread owner' incorrectly) : I am an INFJ female and have been in a 1 year relationship with a complicated INFJ male who is 4 years older than me in his thirties. He is an...

Millions saved, world debts written off as unimportant...

How 'excessive' male sensitivity can be a symptom of neurosis or a worse mental health condition whereas a women may be 'oppressed' if they seem less emotional.

Mostly temperature sensitivity, with summer being my worst season; far too hot and humid making me more easily exhausted, unable to concentrate, short tempered at times and struggling to sleep. Rain and snow I do not mind as long as shopping is not getting wet...chill does not affect me hardly...

May I enquire about which part of the UK you are from.

Yes and no *notes an exemplar link: http://friendship.about.com/od/Types_of_Friendships/tp/Stages-Of-Friendship.htm*, personally I hope people will become more than 'activity buddies' or colleagues but know there is often not enough in common to make this a reality... At times the old wise soul...

Much easier to answer. Setting conditions upon what one must do to maintain love (materialisms rather than something as fundamental as being a good Father for example), withholding affections until acts of service are fulfilled, blaming-excessive criticism-shaming cycles that show one is not...

Of course, although I would have to insist that you consider reading the book though :)

Growing up I was often fearful of what 'love' may feel like, learning from a young age that I could not trust relatives or parents with my emotions or sensitivity, willfully avoiding such conditional acceptance and interpretations I saw from so many actually in relationships or unsure what they...

Not something I can really explain, besides noting how it is in peoples nature to scout out a room or make themselves aware of potential vulnerabilities (perhaps empathic highly perceptive people are just better at observing 'the unspoken' or seeking complexity?).

Only with pets and people, growing in towns or noisy places throughout life...Something I have never really been able to define (besides noting how I grew up as an eye aversive INFJ Aspie) is learning to 'sense' feelings or energies based upon non verbal or unspoken communication (upon...

Yes and no... I tend to feel these 'masks' are more like intensities of 'me' and more situational, in order to avoid wasting energies around those not capable of knowing the true me so easily.

Well 'many' in such cases may wish to cloak themselves in 'pride' in an effort of self denial (i.e. body dysmorphic disorders or 'assertiveness' that is really cold and hostile), making it a case of lexiconicalism when some confuse individualism (self reliance, self motivated, pride in their own...